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Postby Guest on Fri Nov 24, 2006 2:17 pm

[quote= Is penis size irrelevant to confidence with women?

Continue on with your observations...


sizesurvey.com has that as a part of the survey.

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Postby caliboy19 on Sat Dec 02, 2006 9:59 am

Hello im 19 years old and my penis is exactly 5 inches when erect and personally ive always worried that women will be turned off or shocked or would laugh at my penis size which does a number on my confidence. Reading these other replys though gives me a lot more hope!

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Postby official_user_male on Sat Dec 02, 2006 6:33 pm

caliboy19 wrote:Hello im 19 years old and my penis is exactly 5 inches when erect and personally ive always worried that women will be turned off or shocked or would laugh at my penis size which does a number on my confidence. Reading these other replys though gives me a lot more hope!


your not on your own dude. I am also 5 inches and it worried me a lot during my High School days (something I said in one of my last posts here).

When I found out that size matters.... I panicked, just like every guy I suppose. When I found the average to be about 6 inches I was very down with myself, just because I was 1 inch short. Just because of 1 inches... I felt girls would laugh at me if I went on to have sex with them, etc.

I am 24 now... dont let it get you down because there is MORE to sex than the penis. Dont let your lives be affected because of the size of your manhood. Become a bigger person in yourself and move away from this issue and enjoy sex for what it is.

We should all be 'ultra-confident'.... no matter how we look or appear to others!!

Get out there, enjoy life and enjoy your penis.... no matter the size.

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Postby nonotme on Sat Dec 02, 2006 7:50 pm

caliboy19 wrote:Hello im 19 years old and my penis is exactly 5 inches when erect and personally ive always worried that women will be turned off or shocked or would laugh at my penis size which does a number on my confidence. Reading these other replys though gives me a lot more hope!


You're okay with a 5 incher. Mine is just 4.5 inches! What is your girth? Does it fit inside a TP roll? Mine is 4.9" and a couple of women have told me that my girth makes up for the length!

I will admit to what three girls told me once. This was not when say saw it, but when I told them. 1) She did giggle! - I just kind of smiled along with her. 2) "Is that soft or hard?" 3) "How old are you?"

Other than those 3 reactions, its not too bad. I think whats worse is having it just 1.5" soft!!

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Postby happytimeis69 on Wed Dec 13, 2006 10:14 am

Its not the size that frightens the flies, Its the hole that the bugger flies into! :lol:

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Postby high_casualty on Fri Dec 29, 2006 4:20 pm

by all means stop me if i'm wrong. i'v had female friends that say no guy has ever made them cum, in this situation 12" dick or 1" dick does it really matter?
wether or not u have a small or huge penis if you get off and your g/f gets off and your both satisfied does it matter.
when i was with my ex i had trouble making her cum durin sex even when we were going for 30-40 minets and it had nothing to do with the size of my C***. but i could make her cum after licking her out for 5minets some times i made head for her last for up to an hour because she liked it and i liked giving it..... does size really matter?

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Postby elliott20 on Fri Dec 29, 2006 4:31 pm

about as much as a 3 point bonus question on a 100 point test. if you don't have the skills to back it up, you're still getting a failing grade. But having the right size can be a little helpful.
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Postby Guest on Fri Dec 29, 2006 6:06 pm

Elliot, what you say is such an American oulook,which is not a wrong outlook,but is not universal.Men dont have to be good in bed or have a dick of a certain size.Women are for men's pleasure,if anything.

I'm English and was brought up when sexism ran opposite to how you descibe.

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Postby Guest on Fri Dec 29, 2006 6:08 pm

I agree with elliot. Women don't NEED a big dick to get off, but it is certainly a bonus for them when they get it, and will perhaps get them off faster/easier/with less effort.

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Postby Guest on Fri Dec 29, 2006 6:11 pm

Girls:

do most of the ultra-confident guys you date end up having big dicks?

Is it rare to date some over-confident "C***-sure" swaggering guy and find out he's got a really small penis?

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Postby Guest on Fri Dec 29, 2006 6:27 pm

. wrote:I agree with elliot. Women don't NEED a big dick to get off, but it is certainly a bonus for them when they get it, and will perhaps get them off faster/easier/with less effort.


And you're that big dick in person.

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Postby Guest on Fri Dec 29, 2006 6:34 pm

. wrote:
. wrote:I agree with elliot. Women don't NEED a big dick to get off, but it is certainly a bonus for them when they get it, and will perhaps get them off faster/easier/with less effort.


And you're that big dick in person.

I'm not trying to be a dick, it's just what I've experienced from what girls have told me and what I've heard them say to each other. And no I don't have a big dick, so I'm not tooting my own horn.

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Postby Guest on Fri Dec 29, 2006 6:43 pm

Yes, I think modern penis size obsession has much of its origin in the USA, because I have dated European and American men and the latter were often the ones who had issues. And partly thanks to the American lead, other parts of the world appear to be following.
I say they can keep their big dick theories, hamburgers and George Bush.

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Postby RED STAR on Fri Dec 29, 2006 6:45 pm

. wrote:
. wrote:
. wrote:I agree with elliot. Women don't NEED a big dick to get off, but it is certainly a bonus for them when they get it, and will perhaps get them off faster/easier/with less effort.


And you're that big dick in person.

I'm not trying to be a dick, it's just what I've experienced from what girls have told me and what I've heard them say to each other. And no I don't have a big dick, so I'm not tooting my own horn.


No you're tooting your culture's.

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Postby Guest on Fri Dec 29, 2006 7:05 pm

. wrote:Yes, I think modern penis size obsession has much of its origin in the USA, because I have dated European and American men and the latter were often the ones who had issues. And partly thanks to the American lead, other parts of the world appear to be following.
I say they can keep their big dick theories, hamburgers and George Bush.

That is such BS. I studied in London and it is no different over there. British girls are often even more outspoken.

Look at your tv show "Couplings" where the girl who hated this guy becomes infatuated with him as soon as she learns from another girl he has a really big dick. The girl who told her, the main character of the show, says his big dick is the reason she dated the jerk for three years.

That was on your standard telly. You'd have to get HBO to see Sex and the City to get anything close to that.

So take your horrible unhealthy food (kidney pies, and fried fish) and your lapdog poodle of a leader, Blair, and wake up!

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