Women: Ever date Ultra Confident guy with small peni

[joshuatree]

yes, it DOES matter.

im 30 and i nver got laid. all because of a comparison when i was a child. doctors said my penis is absolutely normal, as when it gets an erection is perfectly suitable with a vagina. In spite of this, i´ve never been confident. i dont play sports with my friends because of my penis, i´m afraid of the showers. i never proposed anything to a woman. sometimes i refused to have sex with a woman. i´m too unconfident. i know what the doctors said, but 12 centimetres on erection is laughable to many people. im ashamed, i even thought sometimes about suicide. life without love is not life. im very emotional, i love women... but i never had one. will i have her one day? its F****** difficult. But especially because of you, people, laughing at the people with a smaller one. Just because LUCK did not give you what it gave us. imagine your son is going to have a micropenis, and you see him crying every day... a beautful life, a career, a nice face, a good man... but unhappy and willing to die because of this F****** matter of the size.

There is so much to say about this.... This is a cruel world. i hate it.

[Newbie.]

yes, it DOES matter.

im 30 and i nver got laid. all because of a comparison when i was a child. doctors said my penis is absolutely normal, as when it gets an erection is perfectly suitable with a vagina. In spite of this, i´ve never been confident. i dont play sports with my friends because of my penis, i´m afraid of the showers. i never proposed anything to a woman. sometimes i refused to have sex with a woman. i´m too unconfident. i know what the doctors said, but 12 centimetres on erection is laughable to many people. im ashamed, i even thought sometimes about suicide. life without love is not life. im very emotional, i love women... but i never had one. will i have her one day? its F****** difficult. But especially because of you, people, laughing at the people with a smaller one. Just because LUCK did not give you what it gave us. imagine your son is going to have a micropenis, and you see him crying every day... a beautful life, a career, a nice face, a good man... but unhappy and willing to die because of this F****** matter of the size.

There is so much to say about this.... This is a cruel world. i hate it.

You're too conscious of your penis. 4 Inches is more than enough for missionary and girl on top, and think about it - do you really want to be with any girl that judges you solely on penis size? There are loads of girls out there who'd be more than happy with 4 inches if the technique is right and more importantly if the guy is right.

Furthermore, your 4 inch penis in NOT a micropenis - there's a significant chunk of guys out there with smaller penises and penises too big for sex and you're fortunately not in them. Don't feel bad about never having sex, it's not something you should rush to do and you're only 30, how many people have met the right person in their life by then?

[Guest]

I really don't understand why you guys bother about your d*ck size if you can use properly I' m not telling it because I have a small one or not, if you want the truth I'm 6,7" long, and 2 inches diameter, I m very confined with it but I dont understand why a guy with a samller one shouldnt have if he can pleasure of his girlfriend

[deepstorm]

I really don't understand why you guys bother about your d*ck size if you can use properly I' m not telling it because I have a small one or not, if you want the truth I'm 6,7" long, and 2 inches diameter, I m very confined with it but I dont understand why a guy with a samller one shouldnt have if he can pleasure of his girlfriend

[reelniggas]

i have a5 1/4 5 1/2 inch penis i am very depressed by it especially when the girl i love leaves me for some guy with a huge one. why not commit sucide in this day and age is there really any benefit to life unless your good looking tall or have the right equmetn to life. i feel like S***, nothings going to change my world. i might turn muslim and move to arab so i can get me some virgin t*** so that would make me feel better. at least i wont be compared to. or maybe girls shouldnt be such sluts but the world we live in today and who is anyone to disinfrancise anyone for there gender about what and what they cant do. i hate my life. the only thing i hold on to is that one day there will be some type of procedure or device that makeit bigger with all the technology now a days i hope its soon.

[guest-Jeff]

There is an easy solution to anxiety about penis size (and boob size too for that matter). You folks need to go read some of the sociological literature on gender and body image. Your first mistake is to take gender as real, and gender norms as real. Our culture constructs extreme fantasy based ideals of what a 'real' 'man' or 'woman' is. They are of course all bullshit. If you think that a man who is taller, stronger or who has a bigger C*** is more of a man then you are already falling for these cultural notions. Norms of masculinity (and gender more broadly) are incredibly damaging to peoples' self-image. The key point is that gender is a performance, so you have to work to change the script....Having said this those of you living with such body image problems have my sympathy..

[Smoothie0911]

i have a5 1/4 5 1/2 inch penis i am very depressed by it especially when the girl i love leaves me for some guy with a huge one. why not commit sucide in this day and age is there really any benefit to life unless your good looking tall or have the right equmetn to life. i feel like S***, nothings going to change my world. i might turn muslim and move to arab so i can get me some virgin t*** so that would make me feel better. at least i wont be compared to. or maybe girls shouldnt be such sluts but the world we live in today and who is anyone to disinfrancise anyone for there gender about what and what they cant do. i hate my life. the only thing i hold on to is that one day there will be some type of procedure or device that makeit bigger with all the technology now a days i hope its soon.

I wish I had your 5 1/4 to 5 1/2 inch penis but I don't. The good Lord only saw fit to give me 4 3/4 inches. It does suck but I didn't let it control my life. I do avoid public showers so some a**hole doesn't get the opportunity to try to make me feel less than him just because I didn't inherit the right gene to give me at least an average size penis.

That said, I have been married to my loving wife for 32 years and we have two sons, one a US Marine. Unfortunately, they did inherit the short penis gene although they both seem to have higher testosterone levels than I do judging by the amount of body hair they have. They have both managed to find cute girls to marry and one has recently given us our first Grandson. I retired last year after a fulfilling career as a firefighter.

I just want to let everyone know that you can live a relatively normal life, even with a less than average penis. Don't sell yourself short. (pun intended)

[average size, great f***]

yea i see how its like. i myself am about 5.5 hard, which is right around the norm (5-7) but i am generally confident around my girlfriend because i know that while i am not considered "big" i am not "small" either, so i dont really lose in that department. i am, however, extremely gifted i would say in the art of sex. idk what it is about it, but ever since i was young i always thought and read and practiced and now i am EXTREMELY good at sex. i can make my girl orgasm 2-3 times during normal sex, and can go one for easily 20+ minutes. my girlfriend actually likes it when i keep it short cuz i can go for as long as she wants really, plus i know all the right moves and positions to get her to orgasm. i also LOVE to eat her out, and i am very good at it as well. idk i just know how to use and work what God has given me, and to any other person who thinks they lack in the penis size department, DONT LET THAT FOOL YOU, you can have a big penis and SUCK at having sex. with my size, i know how to WORK IT and know all the right places and times and ways to do things that make my girl go crazy. so listen, communicate, and pound it