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Do women find this good or bad in a man?

Postby helloeric on Fri Sep 05, 2008 7:36 pm

The following are some traits about me which i am not sure about

I am a geek i know lots of "stuff" completely unrelated things about history, geography etc this surprises people who don't know me much.

I have high ambitions in my life

I am more of a romantic person than most for my age, but i am the one without a relationship, everyone who treats women like door mats always have someone.

I don't really do much socially i don't like drinking, night clubs, gigs i find them all boring id much rather have a night in watching a film.

I don't follow a trend or look like other people i just wear what i like.

I have no real experience with relationships

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Postby ZiaAries on Fri Sep 05, 2008 8:13 pm

Sounds good to me. If you can add kinky sexual tendencies to that list, I'd say you almost sound like my perfect guy.

Age? Under 30 or over 30?

Do you take care of your body?

Are you kind to animals and small children?


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Postby Hotel_Whiskey on Fri Sep 05, 2008 11:47 pm

Hey hun. Wait a few years and the girls will get bored of being doormats :)

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Postby Verve on Sat Sep 06, 2008 1:51 am

Can you make a living off of your knowledge? Do you use your knowledge to show off or demean another human being?

Are your ambitions so high there unattainable?

Do you smolder every woman you meet? You attach yourself to their hip.

Are you a good conversationalist? Are you cheap?

Is your individuality keeping up with this era in fashion?

At what age did you kiss a girl and get laid?

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Re: Do women find this good or bad in a man?

Postby Cambridge on Sat Sep 06, 2008 2:11 am

helloeric wrote:The following are some traits about me which i am not sure about

I am a geek i know lots of "stuff" completely unrelated things about history, geography etc this surprises people who don't know me much.

I have high ambitions in my life

I am more of a romantic person than most for my age, but i am the one without a relationship, everyone who treats women like door mats always have someone.

I don't really do much socially i don't like drinking, night clubs, gigs i find them all boring id much rather have a night in watching a film.

I don't follow a trend or look like other people i just wear what i like.

I have no real experience with relationships


In the meantime, how's your puppy? :D

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Postby helloeric on Sat Sep 06, 2008 3:38 pm

ZiaAries wrote:Sounds good to me. If you can add kinky sexual tendencies to that list, I'd say you almost sound like my perfect guy.

Age? Under 30 or over 30?

Do you take care of your body?

Are you kind to animals and small children?
:wink:


I am under 30 and yes i take care of my body but most girls want someone who does that.

Can you make a living off of your knowledge? Do you use your knowledge to show off or demean another human being?

Are your ambitions so high there unattainable?

Do you smolder every woman you meet? You attach yourself to their hip.

Are you a good conversationalist? Are you cheap?

Is your individuality keeping up with this era in fashion?

At what age did you kiss a girl and get laid?


I should be able to get a good job with the knowledge and qualifications i have but i am still in education

My ambitions are almost unattainable but that is why i will succeed i am not setting my heart on archiving all of them but i will achieve some and even some are great.

I can be a good conversationalist depends what mood i am in at the time

dont know what "are you cheap?" means

By era i am not sure what you mean but i probably am

Just not answering the last question as i see no point

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Postby Andy46 on Sat Sep 06, 2008 8:13 pm

Hey

Looks like we are both posting, questioning our lack of female attention. I share your pain mate.

Although i certainly wouldn't describe myself as a Geek, i am a stable, decent bloke. However the only attention i get from women is when they want someone to moan to about their low life, debt ridden, drug / . addict of a boyfriend who never gives them any attention ..... out of my group of mates the one who does the best with the women is 32, living at home with his parents, drinks heavily, looks a mess (the words of many people not just me) and the only thing he has to show for his life is an MG sports car which i suppose looks ok but is actually falling apart underneath the bonnet !!

Weird eh ??

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Postby ZiaAries on Sat Sep 06, 2008 11:07 pm

helloeric wrote:
ZiaAries wrote:Sounds good to me. If you can add kinky sexual tendencies to that list, I'd say you almost sound like my perfect guy.

Age? Under 30 or over 30?

Do you take care of your body?

Are you kind to animals and small children?
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I am under 30 and yes i take care of my body but most girls want someone who does that.



It all sounds good to me. Being kind to animals and children is always a plus in my eyes. I'm just saying in general, not for you to go after a woman with children. I love children but I wouldn't date a man with them.

How's your manners? :wink:
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Postby Who? on Sat Sep 06, 2008 11:21 pm

ZiaAries wrote:
helloeric wrote:
ZiaAries wrote:Sounds good to me. If you can add kinky sexual tendencies to that list, I'd say you almost sound like my perfect guy.

Age? Under 30 or over 30?

Do you take care of your body?

Are you kind to animals and small children?
:wink:


I am under 30 and yes i take care of my body but most girls want someone who does that.



It all sounds good to me. Being kind to animals and children is always a plus in my eyes. I'm just saying in general, not for you to go after a woman with children. I love children but I wouldn't date a man with them.

How's your manners? :wink:

Ms Aries, in my room please.... NOW!!! :lol:
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Postby ZiaAries on Sun Sep 07, 2008 12:01 am

Who? wrote:
ZiaAries wrote:
helloeric wrote:
ZiaAries wrote:Sounds good to me. If you can add kinky sexual tendencies to that list, I'd say you almost sound like my perfect guy.

Age? Under 30 or over 30?

Do you take care of your body?

Are you kind to animals and small children?
:wink:


I am under 30 and yes i take care of my body but most girls want someone who does that.



It all sounds good to me. Being kind to animals and children is always a plus in my eyes. I'm just saying in general, not for you to go after a woman with children. I love children but I wouldn't date a man with them.

How's your manners? :wink:

Ms Aries, in my room please.... NOW!!! :lol:


Hmm, Gentle yet firm. :think: Yes Sir. Right away. :lol:
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Postby Verve on Sun Sep 07, 2008 1:38 am

helloeric wrote:

I should be able to get a good job with the knowledge and qualifications i have but i am still in education

My ambitions are almost unattainable but that is why i will succeed i am not setting my heart on archiving all of them but i will achieve some and even some are great.

I can be a good conversationalist depends what mood i am in at the time

dont know what "are you cheap?" means
By era i am not sure what you mean but i probably am

Just not answering the last question as i see no point



The point in me asking is to find out if you don't do outings because you are cheap. If you don't like outings there are other things to spend your money on. What is your favorite pass time?

The point of my last question is to find out what ages you peeked in life. Many people believe they should have done something at a particular age. If your pace in life has been slow moving it's only natural for you to wait until the right time to find a mate.

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Postby helloeric on Sun Sep 07, 2008 6:54 pm

Verve wrote:

The point in me asking is to find out if you don't do outings because you are cheap. If you don't like outings there are other things to spend your money on. What is your favorite pass time?

The point of my last question is to find out what ages you peeked in life. Many people believe they should have done something at a particular age. If your pace in life has been slow moving it's only natural for you to wait until the right time to find a mate.


No i have money and am willing to spend it i would just rather make dinner than go out for dinner, at the moment i dont have a lot going on i do some sports but that depends on the weather and it has been raining for the last 2 weeks.

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Postby Verve on Sun Sep 07, 2008 9:12 pm

What do you feel makes women not interest, be honest?

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Postby Cambridge on Mon Sep 08, 2008 1:02 am

I have no real experience with relationships


Eric, why don’t you take your phony act somewhere else? At least grow up and stop trying to make everybody feel sorry for you. If you’ve got a problem with relationships, address it. We all manage. Don’t come around here with your woeful stories, expecting everyone to coddle you because you are some poor, complex, inexperienced geek.

Soz folks, but this is two threads for him, and I've had about enough of his sad act. :roll:

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Postby ZiaAries on Mon Sep 08, 2008 5:41 am

Gosh Cambridge. The guy only has 7 post total and joined last week. Why so rude and impatient? If you don't want to read his post, then don't come to this thread.


helloreric, Ask all you want. Not all members are like that. You are new to the forum and you deserve to be welcomed. If you later earn to be treated with disrespect, I'm sure there are a few of us that will give it back but, for now, you are okay here. I don't feel sorry for you at all. Actually, I have a thing for geeks. Especially when they are under the age of 30. :lol:
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