Women's views on men who wear tights/pantyhose.

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men wearing pantyhose

Postby nancy » Fri May 14, 2004 3:53 pm

i,m a 41 years old female,i just wanted to say that it nevered bothered me for men wearing pantyhose,its only a piece of clothing that women wear more often than men.just change every thing around if men wore pantyhose more than women,then what would the men say about the women wearing pantyhose would it still be the same arguement.for myself i find men sexy in pantyhose. nancy 8)
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Postby guest. » Wed May 19, 2004 11:34 pm

I like this topic.

I do not wear pantehose currently, nor have I for years. I guess as a child i ended up wearing them & liked the feel so much that i carried on wearing them occasionaly. I only like them when rubbing between other stuff though, like sheets. It feels like your legs are in heaven!

Now Im really turned on by them when women wear them. Women must feel really sexy in them. Or they just arent a sensual woman.

Men and women can be both sensual or not.

I like the ones that are a little thicker than normal though and tan...
They just feel nicer.

People have gossiped about it from a leak at school, but now if i hear a rare comment I dont give a S***.

I dance real sexy like a woman, and it turns women on when I shake my bum.... still with masculinity there too.

Pantehose are the sexyest, most sensual item on the whole planet.

If I had a restaraunt all women would wear them and nothing else (but high heels if they wanted to.) :evil:

Aaahhhhh.....I would link you some pics.....but im just passing through...

Have fun with your pantehose, women, male, couples or lesbions!
(I am NOT gay in the slightest)

SENSUAL.
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Postby Harry » Thu May 20, 2004 1:55 am

She doesn't look like a bloke to me? Are you sure you are in the right topic?
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Postby Harry » Thu May 20, 2004 6:36 am

You are right mate. Definitely not a bloke. Prefer stockings myself, but hey, I wouldn't crawl over her to get to you! I'm sure you feel the same.

Fancy a lager?
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Postby guest » Thu May 20, 2004 5:12 pm

Hmmm.

Sorry those pictures were not in strict line with the topic. I was just mainly posting them cause Someone said they arent sexy at all. I was proving the "are" sexy. Or can be. On anyone.

Same as "any" clothing.

Also the pics were a present. Mabe the ladies like them too? (shrug) no big deal....

Anyways, I decided to "add" to this topic Because really im not shure "how" I feel about them.

I like them. They are nice.

But it is not socialy acceptable and looked down upon.

In not shure If I like them, or not "for me to wear". I dont know.

I dont fancy men. I love women in pantyhose & I guess they "do" feel nice and sexy.

So... Really Im not shure about them anymore.

Actually im really interested in what other men think/feel about them in general.

Sorry unfortunately I dont have any pics of "men" in pantyhose to put up, nor would I want any.

BUT. I actualy think I could look sexy in them, if challenged. And am interested to know if any women would be turned on by it.

I cannot vote in the poll unfortunately. :oops:
guest
 

Postby guest » Thu May 20, 2004 5:32 pm

The point is. ARE MEN ALLOWED TO feel sexy?

Not a lot of men themselves try and "be" sexy.
Women make them feel sexy. but do they themselves "feel" sexy?

The whole "women" sexy thing took its own path at some point. They wore make-up, sexy clothes, SENSUAL clothes and perfume.
Like a poster wrote in this thread about men wearing tights in the middle ages, and wearing perfume.
Ballerinas wear tights. And that is a bit puffy, but accepted.

And rock stars like freddy mercury ect... both went for the sexy look and feel. Sexy is sexy, and whatever sex you are "sexy" is the same, just as a frown is a frown and smile is a smile, so...

Do women like "sexy" men?
And focusing on males... Is masculine and aggressive, or the standard man in shirt and jeans/ levis advert style the only kind of sexy a man can be?

There are many types of "sexy" STYLES with women. for different tastes...

But.. as I said above.. for men, sexy is sexy. just one image really in mainstream. Its the kind of "wrigglys chewing gum advert" type sexy guy.

There are few different types of sexy for men to be. As far as I can see.

So. If everyone suddenly became open minded...

What would women like to see really?

Lots of women who are Lesbions do it because the men cant satisfy them or they prefer a more feminine partner.

Would these type of women be turned on by a strong, but sensual man who liked to wear clothes that feel nice and sexy to him and her?


Also. Im dissapointed you deleted my poem. I thought it was quite fitting for this thread of all places. And on the boarder of men AND women in pantyhose.

I dont suppose you saved it?
I wanted to see what reaction the women had to it.
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Postby Guest » Thu May 20, 2004 7:00 pm

Ok.
Im obviously feeling a need to discuss this further.

I have thought about my feelings on the matter some.

I am not gay
I do not want to be a woman.
I do not consider myself a transvestite.
I would not want to, nor am I moved to wear womens clothing.
I have not worn pantyhose for a long time. And then only on occasion.
I am masculine and feminine as a being.
I do not feel I would want to wear womens clothing other than pantyhose & then only if i wanted to feel sexy.
I am a strong man and am as masculine as any other man in my sport and daily activitys.
I am somewhat drawn to "want" to wear pantyhose, and a female partner wear them too, when we want to feel sexy or comfortable.
Though just the female wearing them would be enough to satisfy this desire.

As a man, And as I have learned & matured I have learned that besides just getting into sex, Its really great to "feel" sexy. And both feel and share this sexual energy with a woman, or just in the self.

Dancing sexy with women turns me on. Having energy with women turns me on too. And wearing sexy clothes that look AND/OR FEEL sexy and sensual only adds to and heightens the whole effect of this.

I had only one sleeping dream about pantyhose.

I was at stonehenge. And lots of people were there, standing around, talking ect... walking around. Wearing only pantyhose and high heels. I was too. And nobody was acting as if anything was out of the ordinary.
This made me feel very sensual and sexy. But embarrased.

I have decided that from behind, I wouldnt look much different from a woman If i was dressed like this. Therefore it can/could LOOK sexy.
But I feel the main thing that fuels the looking sexy is the mental link to the "feel". with the association of touch. But I feel they look nice too.

At the extreme boundaries of my imagination and playfull thought... I would like to wear them, and high heels.. WITH a woman who was also wearing them, and a silk shirt. We would dance together real sexy and sensuously and both "FEEL" highly aroused and horny. In our bodys and from eachother. We would create as much sensual pleasure and share it as is physicaly possible, for as long as possible in as many ways as possible, then have sex.

I am interested what other women feel and think about this.
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Re: Women's views on men who wear tights/pantyhose.

Postby hoselover » Fri May 21, 2004 10:55 am

AJ wrote:This board is turning into a "man wearing pantyhose, isn't it normal" type thing.

1) Its not normal
2) Women on the whole don't like it
3) Women think its pervy

FACT
End of story


I really don't care what the hell you think of guys who wear them because Women wear guy's jeans, boxers and ties ALL the time and they think they can just get away with it too. Women are NOT normal when they do it, they are perverts and I am turned off when they do this crap with OUR Clothes, thank you very much! So tell your sex to STOP doing it too, we aren't the only ones who crossdress, Women are just as much to blame with this hobby.
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Re: men wearing pantyhose

Postby hoselover » Fri May 21, 2004 11:02 am

nancy wrote:i,m a 41 years old female,i just wanted to say that it nevered bothered me for men wearing pantyhose,its only a piece of clothing that women wear more often than men.just change every thing around if men wore pantyhose more than women,then what would the men say about the women wearing pantyhose would it still be the same arguement.for myself i find men sexy in pantyhose. nancy 8)


I highly admire you too for not being so narrow minded about guys wearing pantyhose unlike some here who are so narrow minded, it makes you sick! Time to open your minds, narrow minded Women and realize guys can wear whatever they choose just like you can do with our clothes too. Its not a double standard, Women don't just have the right to do it and guy don't have any rights to do it, not the way it works. Its either both sexes get to do it or nobody does, its not one or the other. Its pathetic how narrow minded people continue to be about such a irrelevent thing like Men wearing pantyhose when its something that we like too and gives us happiness and it does NOT mean we are gay either so don't even go there.
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Postby mysteryguest » Fri May 21, 2004 2:07 pm

views 1769 :D

Come on women. where are the votes? only takes a seccond to do it. :oops: unless... you put some time in.

I want to know If we could have the potential to be a freaks or not.
Or if we might actualy be able to turn a lotta girls on with it we let it be.

Women in pantyhose. Most deffinately sexy without a doubt.

Men too? can it be so?
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Postby SamBrown » Sat May 22, 2004 4:38 pm

Freaks it just not normal, Thats my opinion. Yet I bet there will be a few apologists (probably posinga as women) posting back say how great it really is and how naturally it is for a man to walk round in ladies undies.
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What do women think of men who like to wear tights/pantyhose

Postby kirsten » Sat May 22, 2004 10:31 pm

Browsing this site by chance I came across this topic which immediately struck a chord with me. Last week I went to a club and and although surrounded by normal men, I found that I could not take my eyes off a beautiful transvestite. He flirted with me all night, took my picture a couple of times, flicked his long burgundy hair and posed around brilliantly in his mini-skirt. To me however, he looked more of a man then the others, and his dress only accentuated this fact, it made him seem more dangerous, more of a good F***. I don't F*** often because there are not that many pretty men to F*** with!...I wait sometimes for what seems like ages for someone with that special somthing to come along. My ex's although not TV's have always yeilded to my love of seeing them in make up. I like real heavy make-up almost clown like, dramatic blacks and reds...love black lipstick! I have always had to put the make up on for them though, cos they never do it right. As for stockings, well that depends on the body..when dressed in the right attire from head to toe. (yes, toes, fingers painted too) it is my ultimate, fav turn on. I don't even have to make love cos I enjoy just as much watching them too!
I am always sad when they take it off and I am sad that more men can't be peacocks as such and I am sickened by the crap they get out in public.

Not all women like this though...my friends don't and think I should sort out my problem...the only probs I can see is the lack of available supply
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Postby Hazel » Sat May 22, 2004 11:15 pm

My guy looks great in them and we have loads of fun just messing around, ye I have no problems with it
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Postby Guest » Sun May 23, 2004 4:04 am

Wooo. kewl.

Interesting...

Hmmmmmm.. (thinking)

I like being a male.
& like being masculine.

BUT.

I LOVE to DANCE SEXY WITH WOMEN. especialy oldrr ones, like 30-40s. who are dressed sexy.

I like dancing sexy in my normal male clothes, and since I smartened up and dont wear baggy ones no more, and wear tighter complementing jeans..I seem to get lots of attention from the ladies!.

Now I DO dance very feminine, shake my bum, smoothe rythm, timing.. (I like to think) well, I do get complements... & the ladies like it much more creating this "energy of sexuality" in the dancing...

Much better IMHO than a crap shag/sex.

Other men are strong, aggressive and pushy with the women... push through the wall..really try.. But they are drunk, messy, and in my opinion not sexy!

I am not yet quite complete evolving my persistent masculine side, to really "try" with women, but they do LOVE the sexy dancing and energy of the feminine in a man.

It just needs balancing with some attractive, confident, dirty and sext "looks" in the eyes ect... And "play".

So... you are right.... A man can use his femininity to his advantage, and I think when balanced with a bit of masculine energy it is at its best.

Now back to the clothes...

I feel like I would like to wear the sexy womens pantyhose when DANCING SEXY with a woman.

And I feel I COULD look sexy in them and feel very sexy too.
And although I dont feel like I would want to do it on other occasions other than this... This specific one really has a desire in my mind.

Do any women think they could be turned on, feel attacted/sexy to this in the given circumastances?

As hazel and kirsten? appear to give the possibility of them being so.

I like being a man!
I LOVE dancing sexy in my mens clothes, as a man, with WOMEN.

I would LIKE to mabe enhance this sexyness, by wearing (in private) these specific girls item to add to my feeling sexy.. kind of make me feel as sexy as possible when with the woman, but still being a man, and approaching the woman strong, confident but sexy!

The question is Is SEXY IN THE FEMININE?

if so, the ONLY DIRECTION TO INCREASE SEXYNESS WOULD BE ADD MORE FEMININITY RIGHT?

Or is there another direction the man can go in? more brute force? more biting? more clawing? more "ripping the girls clothes off"? more forcing them down like an animal?

Shure, I can do that.
But how about sensuality too?
Is there either/or?
or can there/should there be "both?"
And sexyness?

SO, What do you think? seriously and truthfully?
No matter if you are a girl or boy replying, as whoever....

Just your opinion.
Thanks.
This interesting....

I think I really could have the balls to dress in pantyhose and go on stage dancing sexy, as a man, just to prove it can be done.

Even though im happy with just the woman wearing them.
I it still feels sexy to my body, even though I havent done it for a long time.

I want to though..I think. or give it a try with a woman and see how it feels.

Mabe this is all about finding the right woman and nothing else?
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Postby kirsten » Sun May 23, 2004 11:26 am

In answer: I would be very attracted by this, a man who embraces the feminine side yet who would rip my clothes of and throw me on the bed is uber sexy and very facinating to me!
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