Women's views on men who wear tights/pantyhose.

[Guest]

HI. My new boyfriend loves to wear pantyhose, and I really don´t mind- I even think they can be sexy. My only consern is that he might get of on them rather than on me. It makes me feel quite lonely. Is it normal that guys who like to wear them also like that the other person(she) wears them? Have you any ideas to what I can do in bed to make him understand that I accept him,- but need a bit more attention?

Girl, 23

[C.C.G.]

Yes ! be open, honest, and admit your concerns, and explain your feelings.
I guarantee you that he will understand and work with you to fix this. I can say this with all conviction because you are allowing his wearing of tights to be accepted, and trust me that is a boat that he will not rock, therefore he will want to re-assure you.
As an avid tights wearer myself I can fully undersatnd. please do not get to hung up on the fears that you have that his love of tights will take over the feelings for you. You both need to be honest and for gods sake enjoy working this problem out.

C.C.G.

[-guest0-]

I'm a straight male. I've been with women, I love women, but pantyhose and stockings turn me on when girls wear them, I love it. I love the appearance of girls in them so much, I tried a pair on, and its just so sexy, its amazing. I dont do it that much, but when I do, I slip a pair on and masturbatepantyhose.

[Guest]

I find that very unattractive.

[randa]

I am an artist and working together with my partner on all kinds of gender issues. Isn't it strange that men should wear long -johns in winter and women tights, as if the difference in-between men and women are the feet.
If you'd like to judge for yourself check out our work on the topic
www.artistwin.de
you'll find the images under >material >photography by deufert +plischke

[Harisnya]

Hmm. We have fashion photo sets available now at http://www.e-mancipate.net (project pantyhose for men). See and decide if it's hot or not - they're done in a professional way to show that pantyhose can be in fact a regular clothing item for men.

Best,

Harisnya

[belchcoke]

I have been wearing tights for several years both for fetish and practical reasons. tights fetishes are only mild and "unlike others" it only involves you or maybe your partner, so therefore you are harming neither yourself nor others.
When I first started wearing tights I was nervous but nowadays when I buy them I think nothing more of it, although I don't broadcast it to the whole wild world.
During the winter months I wear Marks and Spencers or Charnos opaques as the are very stretchy and extremely comfortable. Anyone over 6" shall get into an extra large pair easily.
I nowadays wear them without socks as that improves one's blood circulation and especially when one has arthritis.
I notice that quite a few men mention that they are afraid of telling their wives or girlfriends that they wear tights.
I say tell them because they shall find out sooner or later and greater shall be your embarrassment. Even if they don't approve at first they shall come around to accepting it. On the other hand you may well find that they don't have a problem with it and find them sympathetic.
There shall sooner or later be a renaissance in men wearing tights and especially as companies are nowadays marketing them for men.
This now raises the question, once men wearing tights has become mainstream, who shall those narrow bigots who are so hostile towards men wearing tights pick on next?

[belchcoke]

I have been wearing tights for several years both for fetish and practical reasons. tights fetishes are only mild and "unlike others" it only involves you or maybe your partner, so therefore you are harming neither yourself nor others.
When I first started wearing tights I was nervous about buying them but nowadays I buy them and think nothing more of it, although I don't broadcast it to the whole wild world.
During the winter months I wear Marks and Spencers or Charnos opaques as the are very stretchy and extremely comfortable. Anyone over 6" shall get into an extra large pair easily.
I nowadays wear them without socks as that improves one's blood circulation and especially when one has arthritis.
I notice that quite a few men mention that they are afraid of telling their wives or girlfriends that they wear tights.
I say tell them because they shall find out sooner or later and greater shall be your embarrassment. Even if they don't approve at first they shall come around to accepting it. On the other hand you may well find that they don't have a problem with it and find them sympathetic.
There shall sooner or later be a renaissance in men wearing tights and especially as companies are nowadays marketing them for men.
This now raises the question, once men wearing tights has become mainstream, who shall those narrow minded bigots who are so hostile towards men wearing tights pick on next?

[C.C.G.]

hear hear my firend. Very said and totally supportive of your comments. they are only items of Clothing.

[belchcoke]

hear hear my firend. Very said and totally supportive of your comments. they are only items of Clothing.

Thanks for that, I'm glad somebody agrees with me. I would just like to add that in all the years I have been buying tights. I have not once seen any warning signs on the packets stating that it is illegal for men to buy and wear tights and that any man buying or attempting to buy them shall face prosecution. Nor have I seen any statement warning women that it is a criminal offence to buy tights for their husbands or boyfriends.
So who makes the rules?
Any man who is about to break the news to his wife or girlfriend, here are a couple of websites you can show her just to prove to her that you are not the only man who wears tights.
http://www.e.mancipate.net/index.php
http://www.tightsandmore.com/home.php?cat=318

[The best feeling]

I find nothing better than wearing Leggs sheer energy pantyhose with a pair of strappy high heels. I am a straight 19 year old male and have not wore them with anyone else around, but would like to sleep with someone while wearing them, they are so great, and i feel like i will explode in a major way sexually if I could wear them during sex, if your interested reply to this ladies around my age, im 5-10, 165 pounds and would very much like to have someone to fool around with.
And, on a side note, i havent heard a lot on heels, i personally love them, especially the strap.

[white]

I have lived with my girlfriend for 3 years and was always too shy to tell her I liked to wear pantyhose. Finally (after alittle beer) I mentioned it to her and she was open-minded so we tried it a few weeks later. She told me that she isn't really into it because the pantyhose are part of the reason I am turned on, and not 100% her. I'm not sure how to explain it to her, can anyone help?

I wish I did. I have the exact same problem.

[C.C.G.]

In response to your requests for help. I can speak from a first hand experience here.
Firtsly understand that it is not the Garment so much as your interest in it that frightens her.
You have to be open and honest and discuss this properly. There are now tights (pantyhose) that are marketed purely for men. There are sites and blogs dedicated to this subject. Use you search engine to locate what ever info you can find, and enter the discussion happy with knowing that you are far from alone. Show her the Sites that deal with this and possibly purchase a pair that are purely for men.
I suspect that it is becasue Society says that it is taboo for Men to like the look and feel of certain Garments that partly spooks your Partner, combined with the fact that the same society that dictates what people have to think also dictate what they have to wear. I can understand that she may have reservations, but talk it through honestly and simply and one by one knock down the barriers that are in your way. You are not Gay, you like the feel, you like the look, you feel comfortable, sexy, naughty, what ever Tell her the truth.
In reallity as i have said previously on this site They are only Clothes, that is all they are, and it is society that says that is not acceptable for Men to wear them.
It is fine for Men to wear them, it does not alter the person wearing any more than your Wife Becomes more masculine if she slips your Boxers and best shirt on in the Bed room.
Keep chipping away, and you will get there, and trust me its worth the effort when you do.
Look on Geraden's Blog, and look up Gerbe tights for Men, and also a site called Petticoated.com.

[Guest]

No way Jose.

[curly jon]

yur right guuest, nothing feels better than pantyhose & heels! I like No-nonsense transparent control (totall nude!) and 5" closed toe stilettos I got from the sex store.

Try fishnets! Just not wit toe rings. they get stuck in the net. Gives a real sexy look. Expecilly when noone else is around! I have foreplay in pantyhose but can't wait to try wearing my heels with sex too! It sounds so exciting just thinking aboutit.

my wife doens't know I prance around the house wearing nothing but pantyhose and heels sometimes when noone is around. I love it! I love the clicking of the heels on the kitchin floor. aahhhhh!

Good luck & Have fun!