Women: What is your ideal penis size?

[Sadam Huslang]

I really wana hear opinions from the black women since that whats around me and i heard their vagina is slightly wider so these surveys depend on race.

[Khalin]

I really wana hear opinions from the black women since that whats around me and i heard their vagina is slightly wider so these surveys depend on race.

I've actually never heard of this before. I actually don't think this is true, but I don't have any experience with this area.

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Gosh, there are so many penis threads here!

First off, I don't think these typed up lengths are very accurate, because as I just wrote in another post, different people are likely to have different screen resolutions. On my screen resolution [1600x1200], I put a ruler up against this graphic and it literally showed up to be 3.2" in length, which based on what you said about your size, doesn't seem correct. I think it would be better to post a picture of an object, or a rough sketch of a penis [I don't mean to be crude here], and make sure it's measured to your exact size or close to it, and show it next to a soda can so people can get a good visual understanding and comparison of it.

I just posted this in a similar topic, so I'm just going to re-post the relevant points:

I'm a 21 year old gay male, and I was linked to this topic by my ex boyfriend, who is bisexual and has dated several women in the past couple years. First off, my penis is uncircumcised and about 8.8 inches in length when fully erect, and my girth is about 5.5" or so [yes, somewhat thin considering the length], and my ex is circumcised and about 7.1 inches long.

Now, talking to one of his recent girlfriends before they had sex, she had told me in private that she preferred guys that were at least 8 inches in length. However, my ex-boyfriend told me that when they made love, she had apparent discomfort accepting his length despite how well lubricated she was and the amount of foreplay they engaged in. After hearing this, I spoke to her about sizes again, and she confirmed that she found his dick to be a bit large [not too large, but large enough to cause a few problems], despite the fact that his girth is only about 5.1". I asked her why she insisted on 8 inches then, and she basically said that she had never actually measured any of her previous lovers [which seemed to be many], and that she probably didn't exactly have a good grasp on what 8 inches actually was. I won't go into details or explain what led to it, but just out of her curiosity's sake, we arranged a session for me to get erect and allow her to measure me. I am almost an inch above her preferred "8 inches", but when she saw my erection she was rather shocked, and said that she thought mine was huge. I asked her to *guess* my size, and she guessed 10 inches. After that I let her measure it, and the ruler showed about 8.4"-8.5" in length [it wasn't a full erection, because I guess I can't keep an erection with no real stimulation around since she was female]. Even though it wasn't full length, she said that it was definitely something that she'd be intimidated to allow inside her in bed, though I told her that a man is more than just his penis, and that she should keep an open mind with her lovers, but I digress.

Anyways, I wanted to note this because this is an example of how I think women may not have a real grasp on what "8 inches" actually is, unless they do take the time to measure it for themselves instead of taking their man's word on it. I've spoken to a lot of women about this, and I'm starting to notice this same trend here.

Are women actually measuring their lovers? Or are most of you taking your lover's word for it? Or are you just taking a rough estimation of how long it is based on how it looks? Remember that, many things can alter how big a penis looks. Things like how thick it is, how big his balls are, how low his ballsack hangs down, how "wide" he is in terms of body/waist, how heavy or slim he is, how tall he is, etc. A combination of these things can actually affect the look of a penis and make it look an inch longer or shorter than it actually is. Just something to think about.

It's just my personal experience, but I think I'm inclined to believe it.

I have a question though: I'm interested in hearing the opinions from women who have experienced both circumcised and uncircumcised penises inside them on which they would prefer. I am uncircumcised, and just sitting here thinking about it in the past 5 minutes or so has gotten me a little curious. I look forward to detailed and honest responses.

I'm sorry that this post came out too long, I tend to type a lot and get too wordy.

[Guest]

what about curvved dicks? what do women think of them?

[O-town (guy)]

I'm 6x6 on rod size. The only time this hasn't been adequate was for a woman who had the most incredibly gaping vagina ----- I mean, it was a cavern down there. A Louisville Slugger would have felt inadequate. She still got off, but it wasn't her ideal. Some women are just born with gaping vaginas. She was not very experienced sexually, and she openly discussed possibly pursuing huge black men for sex - honestly, she didn't bring much to the table, so I wished her the best. I've had no problem helping women cum through penetration. But I also love foreplay and I like to talk dirty, so I think these factors don't hurt my ability to get her off. I think 95% of this is mental, building up to an orgasm. Now for guys with really small penises, I'm talking less than 4 inches, I'm not sure what the answer is. Some guys are thick and this works. Some guys are just tiny all the way around - I don't know what to say for guys in this situation. There are procedures to thicken a penis, and I think this is worth researching - and if a guy does this, he should never tell anybody. But guys are obsessed with penis size and you can tell by a man's behavior - how he acts in life, how he pursues goals, how he carries himself - if he is truly uncomfortable with the size of his penis.

[O-town (guy)]

Ok - I was just reading the gay guy's post a couple slots above mine, and he is dead on correct about the perception of penis size.

I've watched a few porn movies in my day, and I'm always hearing about Pornstar X and his 9 inch penis. And then you watch the movie and think....he doesn't look much bigger than me. He's THICK, but not much thicker than six inches. I don't think his dick is longer than 6.5 inches, but it's thick, so your eyes aren't quite sure how to measure it. Rocco Siffredi is a good example. He's thick, but not super long. The longest dick I've ever seen is on Lexington Steele ------ but I don't think his is any thicker than mine. It's probably truly 9 inches in length. When I'm first getting warmed up with a girl, it takes time for the penis to get to full hard on ---------- but after sex, it looks huge because of all the blood pumping through it, I mean, I'm staring at it thinking, my dick looks huge right now....but it's still only 6x6.

[khalin lover]

I really wana hear opinions from the black women since that whats around me and i heard their vagina is slightly wider so these surveys depend on race.

I've actually never heard of this before. I actually don't think this is true, but I don't have any experience with this area.

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Gosh, there are so many penis threads here!

First off, I don't think these typed up lengths are very accurate, because as I just wrote in another post, different people are likely to have different screen resolutions. On my screen resolution [1600x1200], I put a ruler up against this graphic and it literally showed up to be 3.2" in length, which based on what you said about your size, doesn't seem correct. I think it would be better to post a picture of an object, or a rough sketch of a penis [I don't mean to be crude here], and make sure it's measured to your exact size or close to it, and show it next to a soda can so people can get a good visual understanding and comparison of it.

I just posted this in a similar topic, so I'm just going to re-post the relevant points:

I'm a 21 year old gay male, and I was linked to this topic by my ex boyfriend, who is bisexual and has dated several women in the past couple years. First off, my penis is uncircumcised and about 8.8 inches in length when fully erect, and my girth is about 5.5" or so [yes, somewhat thin considering the length], and my ex is circumcised and about 7.1 inches long.

Now, talking to one of his recent girlfriends before they had sex, she had told me in private that she preferred guys that were at least 8 inches in length. However, my ex-boyfriend told me that when they made love, she had apparent discomfort accepting his length despite how well lubricated she was and the amount of foreplay they engaged in. After hearing this, I spoke to her about sizes again, and she confirmed that she found his dick to be a bit large [not too large, but large enough to cause a few problems], despite the fact that his girth is only about 5.1". I asked her why she insisted on 8 inches then, and she basically said that she had never actually measured any of her previous lovers [which seemed to be many], and that she probably didn't exactly have a good grasp on what 8 inches actually was. I won't go into details or explain what led to it, but just out of her curiosity's sake, we arranged a session for me to get erect and allow her to measure me. I am almost an inch above her preferred "8 inches", but when she saw my erection she was rather shocked, and said that she thought mine was huge. I asked her to *guess* my size, and she guessed 10 inches. After that I let her measure it, and the ruler showed about 8.4"-8.5" in length [it wasn't a full erection, because I guess I can't keep an erection with no real stimulation around since she was female]. Even though it wasn't full length, she said that it was definitely something that she'd be intimidated to allow inside her in bed, though I told her that a man is more than just his penis, and that she should keep an open mind with her lovers, but I digress.

Anyways, I wanted to note this because this is an example of how I think women may not have a real grasp on what "8 inches" actually is, unless they do take the time to measure it for themselves instead of taking their man's word on it. I've spoken to a lot of women about this, and I'm starting to notice this same trend here.

Are women actually measuring their lovers? Or are most of you taking your lover's word for it? Or are you just taking a rough estimation of how long it is based on how it looks? Remember that, many things can alter how big a penis looks. Things like how thick it is, how big his balls are, how low his ballsack hangs down, how "wide" he is in terms of body/waist, how heavy or slim he is, how tall he is, etc. A combination of these things can actually affect the look of a penis and make it look an inch longer or shorter than it actually is. Just something to think about.

It's just my personal experience, but I think I'm inclined to believe it.

I have a question though: I'm interested in hearing the opinions from women who have experienced both circumcised and uncircumcised penises inside them on which they would prefer. I am uncircumcised, and just sitting here thinking about it in the past 5 minutes or so has gotten me a little curious. I look forward to detailed and honest responses.

I'm sorry that this post came out too long, I tend to type a lot and get too wordy.

Khalin I wish you were a woman and I could date you. You really understand man

[Guest]

k so my dicks 6.5 inches and curves to the left about 20 degress and my mates is bout 5 inches and straight.... were both uncut and the same thickness but does the curve put a woman of?

whos would you prefer?

[Guest43]

How are people measuring length? Are they pushing the ruler into the pubic bone or just where the base meets the skin? It can make quite a difference.

[Guest]

I really wana hear opinions from the black women since that whats around me and i heard their vagina is slightly wider so these surveys depend on race.

I've actually never heard of this before. I actually don't think this is true, but I don't have any experience with this area.

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Gosh, there are so many penis threads here!

First off, I don't think these typed up lengths are very accurate, because as I just wrote in another post, different people are likely to have different screen resolutions. On my screen resolution [1600x1200], I put a ruler up against this graphic and it literally showed up to be 3.2" in length, which based on what you said about your size, doesn't seem correct. I think it would be better to post a picture of an object, or a rough sketch of a penis [I don't mean to be crude here], and make sure it's measured to your exact size or close to it, and show it next to a soda can so people can get a good visual understanding and comparison of it.

I just posted this in a similar topic, so I'm just going to re-post the relevant points:

I'm a 21 year old gay male, and I was linked to this topic by my ex boyfriend, who is bisexual and has dated several women in the past couple years. First off, my penis is uncircumcised and about 8.8 inches in length when fully erect, and my girth is about 5.5" or so [yes, somewhat thin considering the length], and my ex is circumcised and about 7.1 inches long.

Now, talking to one of his recent girlfriends before they had sex, she had told me in private that she preferred guys that were at least 8 inches in length. However, my ex-boyfriend told me that when they made love, she had apparent discomfort accepting his length despite how well lubricated she was and the amount of foreplay they engaged in. After hearing this, I spoke to her about sizes again, and she confirmed that she found his dick to be a bit large [not too large, but large enough to cause a few problems], despite the fact that his girth is only about 5.1". I asked her why she insisted on 8 inches then, and she basically said that she had never actually measured any of her previous lovers [which seemed to be many], and that she probably didn't exactly have a good grasp on what 8 inches actually was. I won't go into details or explain what led to it, but just out of her curiosity's sake, we arranged a session for me to get erect and allow her to measure me. I am almost an inch above her preferred "8 inches", but when she saw my erection she was rather shocked, and said that she thought mine was huge. I asked her to *guess* my size, and she guessed 10 inches. After that I let her measure it, and the ruler showed about 8.4"-8.5" in length [it wasn't a full erection, because I guess I can't keep an erection with no real stimulation around since she was female]. Even though it wasn't full length, she said that it was definitely something that she'd be intimidated to allow inside her in bed, though I told her that a man is more than just his penis, and that she should keep an open mind with her lovers, but I digress.

Anyways, I wanted to note this because this is an example of how I think women may not have a real grasp on what "8 inches" actually is, unless they do take the time to measure it for themselves instead of taking their man's word on it. I've spoken to a lot of women about this, and I'm starting to notice this same trend here.

Are women actually measuring their lovers? Or are most of you taking your lover's word for it? Or are you just taking a rough estimation of how long it is based on how it looks? Remember that, many things can alter how big a penis looks. Things like how thick it is, how big his balls are, how low his ballsack hangs down, how "wide" he is in terms of body/waist, how heavy or slim he is, how tall he is, etc. A combination of these things can actually affect the look of a penis and make it look an inch longer or shorter than it actually is. Just something to think about.

It's just my personal experience, but I think I'm inclined to believe it.

I have a question though: I'm interested in hearing the opinions from women who have experienced both circumcised and uncircumcised penises inside them on which they would prefer. I am uncircumcised, and just sitting here thinking about it in the past 5 minutes or so has gotten me a little curious. I look forward to detailed and honest responses.

I'm sorry that this post came out too long, I tend to type a lot and get too wordy.

FINALLY, someone who is talking sense!

You are absolutely correct about the screen resolutions effecting that typed up length. It measures under 3inches on my 1920x1200 screen!

[Guest]

LOL at all the women saying "ideal" is over 9 inches... I bet you couldn't actually take 9 inches, unless you're a horse.

I asked my girlfriend and she says around 6 inches is perfect for her.

[Guest]

LOL at all the women saying "ideal" is over 9 inches... I bet you couldn't actually take 9 inches, unless you're a horse.

I asked my girlfriend and she says around 6 inches is perfect for her.

let me guess. you just so happen to be 6 inches.

[Guest]

I'll be honest and say I like a bigger dick, but the best sex I ever had was with a guy who was smaller. I don't know what he did but he knew how to move or something, and I came each time. If we had stayed together, I"m sure I would have been more than satisfied. If I loved a man, size wouldn't matter.

[Guest]

Brad Pitt has a small dick. So clearly size doesn't matter. He is half hard as all men know, and it is 80% or more of its max size at half hard. It swells up but isn't erect. He is almost erect in the pictures. So size clearly doesn't matter.

http://www.ikarus.superhost.pl/celebrities-blog/Brad_Pitt.jpg

[HampshireBoy]

Khalin talks good sense above.

To be honest I don't think I've ever really worried about my size, my ex wife told me I was smaller than her one previous lover but I knew what I was doing more than him which was good for my ego. It worked because of how we felt about each other, even after two above average sized children.

Now my current girlfriend tells me I'm large and not to be too "enthusiastic". There is such a thing as average but I understand a fair variation in cocks and pussies, so what for one woman is tiny would be just right for another.

For the record, my ex estimated me at 5, I would have said 6, my current estimated me at over 9 then insisted on measuring. On one occasion measured 7 on another 8, so more stimulus or measured differently who knows? I do know that it does feel bigger on some occasions than others. But what it does show is perhaps Khalin is right, we are not very good at estimating size.

[Guest]

Khalin talks good sense above.

To be honest I don't think I've ever really worried about my size, my ex wife told me I was smaller than her one previous lover but I knew what I was doing more than him which was good for my ego. It worked because of how we felt about each other, even after two above average sized children.

Now my current girlfriend tells me I'm large and not to be too "enthusiastic". There is such a thing as average but I understand a fair variation in cocks and pussies, so what for one woman is tiny would be just right for another.

For the record, my ex estimated me at 5, I would have said 6, my current estimated me at over 9 then insisted on measuring. On one occasion measured 7 on another 8, so more stimulus or measured differently who knows? I do know that it does feel bigger on some occasions than others. But what it does show is perhaps Khalin is right, we are not very good at estimating size.

Many women and even guys don't know how to properly measure. Describe in detail the way she measured you. I'll tell you what size that is.