Women: What is your ideal penis size?

[Brazili]

So that means that casual sex is only for long penises. Having that in mind, why people judge guys who don't like casual sex?! i mean they do like the sex but they don't like to be critisized after. A girlfriend of mine once said that big penises are just like free gifts, some guys come with it and others don't, but essencially it didn't matter. My question is if you come with a free gift won't you be better than others?! So i does matter, the only way to a short dick man to get a Super hot chick is by having LOTS o' money, otherwise he'll sleep with her, she'll laugh at him and tell everyone, and the guy will never be confident again, unless his fuckin rich then he could buy a boat just to feel better

[JaapStürk]

Sex is a lot easier to girls, they won't be judged by their vagina size, and if they do they'll just say you're short even if you're not. And they like to say that our concern about size is just like their concern about breasts, i would agree with that if there were no breast surgeries or if they were too risky to do just like penis surgery. if a breast surgery goes bad just remove the silicon and there will be no trouble, but if a penis surgery goes bad he'll never be able to f*** again so i say again SEX IS A LOT EASIER TO GIRLS!

[MCG]

Holy craplecakes this thread is insane . I just measured it yesterday after watching a cockshow on the television and turns out I have 17cm or a tad shy of 7 inches. Well that is supposed to be quit a bit bigger than average (5-6 inches) so I was pleased but it seems women here have a bare minimum of 15 inches or something

God that sucks for most men since the average is 5-6 inches and most men have less than average (because averages skew upwards.. it's math you girls wouldn't understand). Circumcision is 6 inches though and luckily that is enough for the chicks here.

[bob 40]

I am really mystified here on this subject. Being a man and not knowing really what the difference feels like to a women. We men get off one way and the tightness or looseness of the vagina doesn't matter as far as our ability to have an orgasm. Yes a tighter vagina will get you off faster but better?--maybe I dont know. You get off.

A woman on the other hand gets off in different ways. Clitoral, gspot and some supposedly cervix or deep, which I presume would be achieved by a longer (i suppose a 7 or longer) dick. Gspot i suppose would be stimulated more fully by a thicker dick (again I suppose).

Then confusion comes to us men because men and women both exaggerate and/or misjudge size. For instance I once discussed this subject with a former girlfriend before we were intimate. She said 6" was too small. But when I asked her the length of a toilet paper tube she said it was 6". It is is really 4 1/2", so she was really saying 4 1/2' was too short!!

Are some women saying 7" and really picturing an actual 6" dick? Are they saying 8" and really seeing and actual 6 3/4" in their mind? Or did they have a boyfriend that told them he was 7" when he was only 6 1/4". 6 1/4" is not at all short in my opinion.

The reason I think this way is that I have heard other men say that their woman thought they were longer than they actually are and also my personal experience. Also knowing the human nature likes to brag, fantacize and exaggerate things.

I saw a picture of a dick in one of these threads and a couple of women were responding on how thick it was. Also his girlfriend who put it on there was saying how it hit all the right spots. Well it was no bigger than mine (mine is probably a bit thicker throughout as his varied from top to bottom) and mine is 6 long x 5 thick. Also I have always been complimented voluntarily (i didnt have to drag it out) by women that I was good to very good in bed.

My girlfriend whom I have been with for five years always has multiple orgasms when I am at my best (it depends on how long i can go) -sometimes up to 7 or 8 times. i know she is not faking because i can feel it inside when I stop (i have tested her to see if she was faking). She is tight and has a very well defined gspot. Maybe that makes the difference. I have been with other women whom i wasn't sure if they came vaginally or they got off "a little." But they enjoyed it alot and there was alot of gasping and hard breathing to prove it. They were happy anyway because anyone can get good at clitoral stimulation with a little practice!!

Anyway i guess getting a bigger dick is a real turn on to some women. Maybe to the ones that answer this thread it is very important and the rest who pass it up are smaller or dont care because they can feel an average sized man like me. There are my thoughts. Im just glad my woman likes my dick!!!

[luke2323]

I have a reverse problem mine is 9 and 3/4 inches long and as big around as my wrist some folks are like "you are lucky" no Im not it hurts all women and it took my girl 2 years before she let me do anything remotely kinky she still cant take it all the way down. So if a lady says she likes 10 plus inches Id love to meet her and show her what its really like. Luckly i have a great tounge or Id never have a lasting relationship. Ladies measure your man (on top of the penis from where the base hits the pubes and go out from the tip if he is around 7 you are lucky now go out almost 3 more inches and see if you want that pounding you.

[bob 40]

Look all im saying is that not every woman is wanting a huge dick. Some dont care because they look at the whole man. Some are smaller and dont want anything more than average. Just because there are some who do want it, that shouldnt ruin your day unless you want to be a manwhore and slay everything in sight. In that case ill see you in the morgue!

Second you can learn good foreplay skills. Did you know a backrub, footrub, caressing the woman's body and generally giving good passionate loving turns a woman on more than seeing big dong in her face. If you learn how to give good tongue and hand job she will cling to you.

Third keep yourself healthy and dont smoke. Willy stays harder longer that way and thats the biggest complaint women have--stamina. Dont come at her full of cum either or you will get off too quick-- half tank gives you drive but not so much you blow off after 10 strokes. If you are full give her a couple of clitoral orgasms ( or more depending on the lady) before you enter. She'll see you care about her and not just yourself.

Finally be her friend and be good to her and you'll get the same treatment if she's worth anything at all.

[jackcollins]

I think that size does not matter. It can be same pleasure with 4 to 8 inches.

[Tamsin]

I don't agree at all, the bigger the better.
Size definately matters, it's like a canoe next to a cruise liner.

[Sharin...]

MOST females who say that size doenst matter AT ALL are usually lying. size DOES matter to MOST (if not all) of us. i wont say the bigger the better though... but i'd definitely prefer a 7 inch c0ck over a 4 inch (especially for oral). also there are some guys with a 4 inch c0ck who can give more pleasure than guys with a 7 inch. as for my ideal, i'd say around 6.5 inches. i think size matters to all of us, but the extent to size variation in which we prefer will differ

[Dave28]

My penis is 5 1/4 inches long and not thick. I know this is in the average range,but ive been told by men and women alike that its kind of small (I asked them.) What do the women on here think? I'd love to hear from you. Thanks

[Captain]

Personally I do think it's kinda small but not ridiculously tiny or anything

[peter100]

I am only posting this message because I have drunk a bottle of cheap white wine.

I am 36 and still a virgin mainly because I have always been ashamed of my very small penis which is one inch long when flaccid and two inches when erect. Since school where I was teased by the other boys I have managed to avoid ever letting anyone see me naked because I am afraid they will laugh.

I have always been shy with girls and have never had a girlfriend although I have been out on a few (unsuccessful) dates in the last couple of years. I read that girls don't really mind about size but I am too scared to show myself. I am on anti-depressants and taking counselling which is helping.

I guess you think I am a sad case but I would like to meet a girl and get married and have children some day.

Did you ever hear about penis enlargement? I don't mean operation, or taking some pills, no! Just do some exercices, it really works, you will easely be able to extend your penis 3-4 cm in one year, better start now. You will surely find enough instructions how to do in internet, but don't need to pay for it!

Dont have your problem, but he can never be big enough, so i am also doing training since one month, but already see some success

[Guest]

some of you girls/women must have massive, loose, bucket c*nts if yous like c*cks bigger than 8 and 6in girth...
For most girls/women anything thing as big as that is uncomfortable and can be painful..

[Tasmin]

Rubbish, sounds like you are jealous of blokes who have a decent size willy.

[Guest]

Jealous i am not. I'm 7 1/2 in my self and even at that size you can still have problems. Just like the size of men's erection women have different size vagina's.. When i was younger i had to be gentle with plenty of girls but there have been others that have been very large...