Would you share your wife or partner??

[sally wey]

I think it's pretty unlikely you'll like it better than sex with your husband, unless something is really wrong with your relationship, or your husband can't fulfill you now.

Because, when you love someone, it's just an entirely different thing.
This is also why I recommend NOT doing it outside of your husband being there, and in on it, meaning, not just WATCHING you with the other guy, but actively participating at all times.
That way, no matter what is happening, it's an extension of your lovemaking with your husband, not an alternative experience apart from it.
Does this make sense?
This way, it ADDS to your experience with the one you love, not competes with it.

you put that really nice, that is why my husband and I do threesomes, as you will see by my other threads, dont confuse LOVE and sex, just enjoy what you like not what others tell you, love Sally

[Bernie12]

Sally that is just wonderful to know that you can do things like that and it not ruin your relationship I just wish i could be more like you i am so jealous and selfish that i could not imagine seeing myhuband inside someone else I feel so horrible about it because he would love it to have another man come in but i would not be able to return the favor with letting another woman join. Does that make me just a total selfish person???

I don't think there's anything selfish about your attitude, which I imagine is at least partly inspired by your wish to protect your marriage. My wife for one thought along the same lines when she devised this agreement saying that as long as she remains emotionally faithful to me, she's entitled to casual extramarital sex whereas I'm to remain sexually faithful; or at least not to look actively for women to bed with (which boils down to the same ).

One reason for this semi-open relationship is that in the past I endangered our marriage by falling in love with the woman I had an affair with. My wife always knew to keep love and sex apart, so it wouldn't be fair if she would have to suffer for my mistakes.

[sally wey]

Sally that is just wonderful to know that you can do things like that and it not ruin your relationship I just wish i could be more like you i am so jealous and selfish that i could not imagine seeing myhuband inside someone else I feel so horrible about it because he would love it to have another man come in but i would not be able to return the favor with letting another woman join. Does that make me just a total selfish person???

let me explain something, though John never got jealous in MFMs, I had pangs of jealousy in FMFs, like you it was when I saw John enter the other woman ( who was/is my friend,) it was the first time that I saw his penis glisten with her love juices, funny but I never expected it, but now I love the FMFs, the other woman and I go down on each other,
dawny 75 go with your instincts, and forget about the size of the other man, we woman can take more than we think we can, let me know what you think, love Sally

[wickedwill]

Go for it girl its sex you want, not love, you already have that.
You do other things that are exciting why not sex.
how do you know he's well built !!!

[Guest]

yep

[tobinfest]

I would be more than happy to share my wife ........when she goes shopping. Bring your credit cards, please. Be prepared to spend hours of bliss on benches outside the various stores. Buy her a great lunch.
Enjoy!

[splinkygb]

Tobi: You mean guys have to buy her something in return for favours?

[H. Franklin Layne]

no

[MaxtheGaul]

T... in return for favours? ...

Why is it that when women have sex with men they are "providing favours" but when men have sex with women they are "taking advantage"?

Seems like a lot of sexism and double standards to me.

[gbridges]

This topic is still interesting to me.

I've done some thinking about it and what I've come up with is this...

Under the right circumstances, I might share my girlfriend with another guy just for the fun of it and the thrill. But if it was my wife, I wouldn't share her with anyone. But then again, who knows? With the right woman and the right kind of trust and bond between us....

That's gonna be my rule though. Girlfriends, friends, F***-buddies, etc. are fine to share if everything is cool. But my wife is mine and mine alone . If and when I ever get married, that is.

[stonecastle]

If I had a good looking wife I would also like to share her with another woman as well. Then I would join in as well. The site of two gorgeous women getting passionate with each other is the most erotic thing there is. So the thought of your wife getting passionate with another women is such a big turn on.

By the way if she was doing it with another man I would like to watch video footage of it but not actually be there unless I was at a long distance watching through binoculars.

[ZiaAries]

This topic is still interesting to me.

I've done some thinking about it and what I've come up with is this...

Under the right circumstances, I might share my girlfriend with another guy just for the fun of it and the thrill. But if it was my wife, I wouldn't share her with anyone. But then again, who knows? With the right woman and the right kind of trust and bond between us....

That's gonna be my rule though. Girlfriends, friends, F***-buddies, etc. are fine to share if everything is cool. But my wife is mine and mine alone . If and when I ever get married, that is.

Well said. You've come a long way baby. It's nice to see you posting again. XO

[cliff]

after having prostate cancer and not being able to give her full sex would love her to have sex with another man

[brunettebimbo]

NOt a chance! I hate the thought of my boyfriend with any1 else so why the hell would I agree to it and maybe even watch!!?

NOt ever!!

[Guest]

NOt a chance! I hate the thought of my boyfriend with any1 else so why the hell would I agree to it and maybe even watch!!?

NOt ever!!

Imho the question here is how men feel about sharing their wives or (female) partners.

Women sharing their husbands or male partners is an entirely different story, it really goes without saying that only very few women would ever consider such a thing.