Would you share your wife or partner??

[paul32]

[Blackrat]

I regularly allow/arrange/encourage my wife to have sex with other men & it's a great tonic for both of us. We live outwardly "normal" lives with a family, jobs, mortgage, social & community activities etc., but something deep within me needs my wife to be used/enjoyed by other men, & after much soul searching & a reluctant start, she is now a very willing wife who looks forward to her sexual meets with other men at least as much as I do....sometimes on her own, but usually with me present & being part of the party. Lifes good!

Sums up your attitude towards women. They are not there to be used for your sexual gratification. I notice there is no mention of love and affection between you.
Has it ever dawned on you that she is shagging all and sundry to repay the way you treat her?

[rosie727]

I regularly allow/arrange/encourage my wife to have sex with other men & it's a great tonic for both of us. We live outwardly "normal" lives with a family, jobs, mortgage, social & community activities etc., but something deep within me needs my wife to [color=red]be used/enjoyed by other men[/color], & after much soul searching & a reluctant start, she is now a very willing wife who looks forward to her sexual meets with other men at least as much as I do....sometimes on her own, but usually with me present & being part of the party. Lifes good!

Sums up your attitude towards women. They are not there to be used for your sexual gratification. I notice there is no mention of love and affection between you.
Has it ever dawned on you that she is shagging all and sundry to repay the way you treat her?

sounds like you got that right blackrat

[Blackrat]

Thank you Rosie. A varied and adventurous sex life is one thing but I hate to read about people being pressured or used - all sounds very unloving and "control freaky".
Not enough love in the world. Need more love.

[Guest]

I regularly allow/arrange/encourage my wife to have sex with other men & it's a great tonic for both of us. We live outwardly "normal" lives with a family, jobs, mortgage, social & community activities etc., but something deep within me needs my wife to be used/enjoyed by other men, & after much soul searching & a reluctant start, she is now a very willing wife who looks forward to her sexual meets with other men at least as much as I do....sometimes on her own, but usually with me present & being part of the party. Lifes good!

Sums up your attitude towards women. They are not there to be used for your sexual gratification. I notice there is no mention of love and affection between you.
Has it ever dawned on you that she is shagging all and sundry to repay the way you treat her?

sounds like you got that right blackrat

Maybe she's just a lady!

[Blackrat]

Who? Rosie or optiman's wife?

Rosie is definitely a lady.

Why is it that when I tried to reply using the "Quote" button the word "lady" was replaced with the word "lady".

Can someone check it out and tell me why that came up like that.

[Guest 101]

Not sure, I know as a woman, the thought does drive me wild, we even pretend during lovemaking that i have with others, sometimes even two. But reallity/fantasy are in some ways so near but in others so far.

Got to admit tho, I get wet'n'wild thinking bout it

[Blackrat]

Is there an auto edit system that prevents certain words from showing. Click on the "quote" button on the 2 postings with the word "lady" and see what I mean. The word "wh**e" has been edited out of the posting but appears on the quote. SPOOKY!

[animallover15]

Yes there is...some of the words included are wh..ore, h..andbag, on..line, ga..mbling etc and of course all the obsceneties

[eroneus]

The various responses are interesting.
It is surely up to individual couples to pleasure themselves or each other - without censure from externals?
If a man and/ or woman enjoy other sexual partners and it is c consensual - What is the prob. ? - Is it envy or heavy Xtian pressures?

[epic33]

I get turned on listening to my wife describing how she was f***ed by her ex-BF. Even hinted to her that I wouldn't mind if she does it again with him, since they have f***ed before dozens of times.

[Blackrat]

Yes there is...some of the words included are wh..ore, h..andbag, on..line, ga..mbling etc and of course all the obsceneties

Thanks! learn something new every day. Whats wrong with *a**a*?

[elliott20]

don't know? those things routinely kick puppies and eat children! Also, they're nazis!

[Blackrat]

The various responses are interesting.
It is surely up to individual couples to pleasure themselves or each other - without censure from externals?
If a man and/ or woman enjoy other sexual partners and it is c consensual - What is the prob. ? - Is it envy or heavy Xtian pressures?

No censure. Try reading the majority of postings and you will see it is mainly a male fantasy being performed on a female

"I wanna see my gf sh****d by another guy" etc.

Girls are far more forgiving than guys and far more compliant even in this enlightened age so may feel obliged to comply to please their man. What damage is this going to do to the individual and the relationship in the long term and please don't say there will be no damage as many girls have posted on the subject of sex and emotional attachment. The guys are just willing to hump the first hole that comes along.

Everyone is entitled to live their own life the way they want but please don't pressurise others into accepting it.

[elliott20]

meh, as curious as I am about a threesome or even an orgy, I'm pretty damn certain that such a thing will no doubt in the long term come back to haunt me in some fashion.