Would you share your wife or partner??

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Postby eroneus » Fri Jan 12, 2007 7:30 pm

As a fair plain line of enquiry/dialogue - it seems to have become heated? Nott sure wwhy?
Maybe because partnerships now between two loving people - become possesive? I mean thhat a partner "owns" another so they are not free to share/enjoy their own sexuality?
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Postby notastitchonme » Fri Jan 12, 2007 9:38 pm

I like the idea as a fantasy. Not sure if I could handle the reality? I' think I'd try it.
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Postby jinjin » Fri Jan 12, 2007 11:12 pm

It makes an interesting fantasy, but swinging is not for everyone.

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Postby eroneus » Sat Jan 13, 2007 4:59 pm

Happily my wifw understands > enjoys that I share a w w ank" wit h another guy IF she not in mood for 3some fun. BUT I realise this not fr eeryone ... ?
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Postby wildchild » Tue Jan 16, 2007 12:06 pm

notastitchonme wrote:I like the idea as a fantasy. Not sure if I could handle the reality? I' think I'd try it.



and again for everyone that goes ok there is one that goes earth shatteringly wrong, the green eyed monster loose is not a good thing soooo keep it a fantasy
she would never say where she came from
yesterday dont matter cos its gone
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Postby orak100 » Tue Jan 16, 2007 5:32 pm

I did this with my first wife as she was far more into sex than me. We never had a problem with it and it was a great turn-on. Sometimes I was present, sometimes not. She was always careful about her choice of partner. OK, not for everyone but great for some.
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Postby notastitchonme » Tue Jan 16, 2007 7:34 pm

wildchild wrote:
notastitchonme wrote:I like the idea as a fantasy. Not sure if I could handle the reality? I' think I'd try it.



and again for everyone that goes ok there is one that goes earth shatteringly wrong, the green eyed monster loose is not a good thing soooo keep it a fantasy


I have had several 3somes so I'm not averse to such things, although admittedly it wasn't my partner being shared! I was the guest... I think it would depend on the girl, the situation, etc.

Don't think I would do it if married - I take those vows quite seriously.


Like I say, it would depend on the situation. I'm not a particularly jealous type, but I would want her respect still and I'm not sure if that lasts in such a situation. :roll:

>ALL> Do cuckolding wives really respect their hubbies? I just can't imagine the relationship would feel the same after?

I'm not a submissive type and from what I've read, most guys end up being submissive eventually... The lady eventually takes over and decides for herself who she'll sleep with and hubby has nothing to do with it...
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Postby orak100 » Tue Jan 16, 2007 7:39 pm

notastitchonme wrote:
wildchild wrote:
notastitchonme wrote:I like the idea as a fantasy. Not sure if I could handle the reality? I' think I'd try it.



and again for everyone that goes ok there is one that goes earth shatteringly wrong, the green eyed monster loose is not a good thing soooo keep it a fantasy


I have had several 3somes so I'm not averse to such things, although admittedly it wasn't my partner being shared! I was the guest... I think it would depend on the girl, the situation, etc.

Don't think I would do it if married - I take those vows quite seriously.


Like I say, it would depend on the situation. I'm not a particularly jealous type, but I would want her respect still and I'm not sure if that lasts in such a situation. :roll:

>ALL> Do cuckolding wives really respect their hubbies? I just can't imagine the relationship would feel the same after?

I'm not a submissive type and from what I've read, most guys end up being submissive eventually... The lady eventually takes over and decides for herself who she'll sleep with and hubby has nothing to do with it...


Indeed I did become quite submissive but it was something I enjoyed. Our relationship never suffered though. I guess I was pretty meek from the start. Did she respect me? Yes, I think she did. The fact that she was having great sex had little to do with our 'normal' loving relationship. There was never any fear she'd leave or ignore me. I think we were lucky to find each other.
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Postby notastitchonme » Tue Jan 16, 2007 7:58 pm

orak100 wrote:

Indeed I did become quite submissive but it was something I enjoyed. Our relationship never suffered though. I guess I was pretty meek from the start. Did she respect me? Yes, I think she did. The fact that she was having great sex had little to do with our 'normal' loving relationship. There was never any fear she'd leave or ignore me. I think we were lucky to find each other.


Well that sounds pretty good for you then! If there is no fear of her leaving, she still respects you and you are happy being submissive, then it sound like you must he in heaven!
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Postby eroneus » Wed Jan 17, 2007 11:03 am

? - Maybe because I just like a w..ank? - Few women like to watch or do it with me BUT some do = nice for me!
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Postby new guest » Mon Jan 22, 2007 11:52 pm

This makes interesting reading. Only 39 votes out of over 2000 wiews??

My hubby and I have done this in the past, mainly because initially, he got off watching me. Go to say tho, I got more out of it than he did towards the end. Imagine, getting super sex, with husbands consent and all you have to do is let him watch!!

Suited me.
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Postby notastitchonme » Tue Jan 23, 2007 7:54 pm

new guest wrote:This makes interesting reading. Only 39 votes out of over 2000 wiews??

My hubby and I have done this in the past, mainly because initially, he got off watching me. Go to say tho, I got more out of it than he did towards the end. Imagine, getting super sex, with husbands consent and all you have to do is let him watch!!

Suited me.


Do you still love and respect him though? As much as when you first married?

That's what worries me, is that a partner would stop loving and respecting me. And only be there to keep her financially.
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Postby Blackrat » Tue Jan 23, 2007 7:56 pm

wildchild wrote:
notastitchonme wrote:I like the idea as a fantasy. Not sure if I could handle the reality? I' think I'd try it.



and again for everyone that goes ok there is one that goes earth shatteringly wrong, the green eyed monster loose is not a good thing soooo keep it a fantasy


Absolutely!!
They do go wrong. And when they do you can't undo it and the hurt can be intolerable. How many times do we see murders committed by the jealous ex.

If you are prepared to let another guy stick his dick between your gf's legs then you can't think much of her
Just because you are facing one way and everyone else is facing the other, that does not make you wrong.
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Postby eroneus » Wed Jan 24, 2007 3:44 pm

Hmmnn .. "Love and respect him" - In a 3some fun f ..uc .k > If you're a woman yes .. .If a man probably not. ?
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