Would you share your wife or partner??

[notastitchonme]

If you are prepared to let another guy stick his dick between your gf's legs then you can't think much of her

I disagree with that. I would just love to see a GF get really horny and banged really hard. I'd want her to have as much pleasure as possible. To see the pleasure on her face would be fantastic.

So for me it would be because I thought a lot of her.

[Guest]

So for me it would be because I thought a lot of her.

More like you thought very little of her.

[mr incredible]

If you are prepared to let another guy stick his dick between your gf's legs then you can't think much of her

I disagree with that. I would just love to see a GF get really horny and banged really hard. I'd want her to have as much pleasure as possible. To see the pleasure on her face would be fantastic.

So for me it would be because I thought a lot of her.

not in it for the long term relationship then

[Guest]

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That's what worries me, is that a partner would stop loving and respecting me. And only be there to keep her financially.[/quote]

Wouldn't it worry you that she might lose some interest in having sex with you? Or perhaps you are a stud at sex, and would never be worried. But the average joe might think he gives his partner very good sex, and then engages in one of thee threesomes and sees some sure nuff stud really put a working on her and then the average joe see her reacting in ways with the stud that she has never reacted before.

Either way I can't see how it is useful. Let me say it in other words. If a guy is confident his confidence might get a rude awakening. Or if the confident guy is indeed a stud himself and is better in the sack than any partners she encounters, then she isn't going to get as much enjoyment with the other guys for she is already getting the best at home, and therefore her reactions will be a letdown to witness.

[notastitchonme]

I think sex with new people is always going to be good, even if technically they aren't as good as you are. You can't keep that sparkle forever.

I see the point you're making, I was just saying that you can love a woman and let her have her freedom... At least in my thoughts.

I'm not arguing for this type of life style, I'm just saying I have thought about it. I don't know if I could handle it? Maybe if I met someone that I cared about that much I wouldn't want to let her go? I don't know till I get there. I think if I do ever find someone, I'll know if I could do it.
I have been in a 3some with a couple. We still chat, they are still married. They have been together for about 20 yrs. So it can work.

[wildchild]

I think sex with new people is always going to be good, even if technically they aren't as good as you are. You can't keep that sparkle forever.

I see the point you're making, I was just saying that you can love a woman and let her have her freedom... At least in my thoughts.

I'm not arguing for this type of life style, I'm just saying I have thought about it. I don't know if I could handle it? Maybe if I met someone that I cared about that much I wouldn't want to let her go? I don't know till I get there. I think if I do ever find someone, I'll know if I could do it.
I have been in a 3some with a couple. We still chat, they are still married. They have been together for about 20 yrs. So it can work.

so what happened if that certain someone showed her appreciation of your caring sharing attitude and disappeared of into the sunset would you still be glad you did it??

[Blackrat]

I think sex with new people is always going to be good, even if technically they aren't as good as you are. You can't keep that sparkle forever.

I see the point you're making, I was just saying that you can love a woman and let her have her freedom... At least in my thoughts.

I'm not arguing for this type of life style, I'm just saying I have thought about it. I don't know if I could handle it? Maybe if I met someone that I cared about that much I wouldn't want to let her go? I don't know till I get there. I think if I do ever find someone, I'll know if I could do it.
I have been in a 3some with a couple. We still chat, they are still married. They have been together for about 20 yrs. So it can work.

so what happened if that certain someone showed her appreciation of your caring sharing attitude and disappeared of into the sunset would you still be glad you did it??

So notastitch could not handle himself but it is OK for others to try and screw up their lives.

And as wildchild rightly says, how would you feel as they sailed off into the sunset.

I suggest you try it first before recommending to others

[notastitchonme]

so what happened if that certain someone showed her appreciation of your caring sharing attitude and disappeared of into the sunset would you still be glad you did it??

Der, well that's exactly what worries me and why I haven't done it. That's the point of my post. I like to chat about these things and consider them fully.

So notastitch could not handle himself but it is OK for others to try and screw up their lives.

What? I assume you refer to the 3some?
What other people do is none if my business. I thought through this in great detail at the time before engaging in the 3some. I eventually came to the conclusion that these people are adults and I should treat them as such. If they are happy with it then that's fine. And their life is fine after 20 yrs of marriage and 2 kids. It isn't screwed up at all. Just because you can't understand how this can work doesn't mean it can't.

Do you fully understand the ins and outs of a computer, or an atomic bomb? Probably not, but they work don't they, even though you don't get it. I don't know how they do it, but they do.

And as wildchild rightly says, how would you feel as they sailed off into the sunset.

See above.

I suggest you try it first before recommending to others

As my previous comments says "I'm not arguing for this type of life style, I'm just saying I have thought about it."

And I have read through my other comments on this post and I haven't 'recommended it' to anyone.

I understand *how* people can do this. I know people that *do* do this. I have thought about it myself.

This sort of thing is for the individual to decide.

[Blackrat]

You have mixed up quotes from different people. You have attributed a quote from wildchild to me.

Do I know how a computer works. Yes I do and I have studied automata and machine languages.

Do I know how an atomic bomb works. Yes I do.I have studied degree level physics.

Do I know how your brain works. No I dont. Didn't study basic biology

[notastitchonme]

"And as wildchild rightly says, how would you feel as they sailed off into the sunset."

So this wasn't from your mail above the last I made?

OK, so maybe you do understand everything there is to know about computers and you know exactly how an atom bomb is made, but you get my point. Or perhaps you don't? =/

Ahh, so there is a flaw in your knowledge! Maybe you should have done biology. (yes I know you're being sarcastic, so am I).

I think we'll have to agree to disagree, as you just can't seem to get the point and I'm tired of explaining my stance, and frankly quite bored now.

[Blackrat]

"And as wildchild rightly says, how would you feel as they sailed off into the sunset."

So this wasn't from your mail above the last I made?

OK, so maybe you do understand everything there is to know about computers and you know exactly how an atom bomb is made, but you get my point. Or perhaps you don't? =/

Ahh, so there is a flaw in your knowledge! Maybe you should have done biology. (yes I know you're being sarcastic, so am I).

I think we'll have to agree to disagree, as you just can't seem to get the point and I'm tired of explaining my stance, and frankly quite bored now.

There was a survey carried out by Relate (I believe) on group sex activity (threesomes, foursomes, etc) and the failure rate of couples engaging in this sort of activity was catastrophic. The reasons given were

1. Partner doing a runner with someone they met
2. Partner not being able to cope with jealousy

The survey also highlighted the low self esteem of women engaged in such activity.

This survey was referred to in a TV documentary.

And yes I do understand exactly what you are saying and agree that we will have to disagree

[newguest]

I have always wanted my SO to involve another guy with us. I love him very much and he does make me orgasm in many ways, but the thrill of 2 guys on me makes me horny. Always being touched, never having to wait for him to recover, the thrill of a permanent erection with me for hours on end.....what woman would say no in reallity.

Just my tuppence worth

[U asked]

NO, Not a chance!

As a younger person, it happened.

Call it a mistake of youth.

Of course;
- you may get less of a resounding NO from 1 of MY 3 wives.

[New gal today]

This is my all time great fantasy. Cant quite persuade the current BF to go along with it tho.

I have a married work colleauge who does this with her hubby and others and she tells me its GREAt!!!!!!!

Any women out ther have any comments on this. Am I a weird gal or what??/

XX

Newbie

[vixen37]

This is my all time great fantasy. Cant quite persuade the current BF to go along with it tho.

I have a married work colleauge who does this with her hubby and others and she tells me its GREAt!!!!!!!

Any women out ther have any comments on this. Am I a weird gal or what??/

XX

Newbie

yes you are weird, if my b/f even as a much as suggested this he would be kicked in to touch
there is one word for the likes of you SLUT