wildchild wrote:mande wrote:Notice the naysayers are the people who have never done it?
I have done it, and it's fantastically fun, and enjoyable to see the woman I love getting as much pleasure as is possible for her to get.
That's a significant gift I'm giving her.
It comes with lots of responsilibity though, so it's not for everyone, but if one is mature enough, and smart enough (to filter out problem people!), then it can be a fantastic thing to do.
one can be as mature as one likes mande, done this it destroyed what i thought was a stable happy marriage end of.... and how can you use that the best gift crap as a justification into your argument![]()
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it might be working now but there are always doubts that creep in, its human nature
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filter out problems??? its a relationship you are talking about not a car
sorry the car thing is soooooo funny













