Would you share your wife or partner??

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Postby vixen37 on Tue Feb 20, 2007 11:34 am

wildchild wrote:
mande wrote:Notice the naysayers are the people who have never done it?

I have done it, and it's fantastically fun, and enjoyable to see the woman I love getting as much pleasure as is possible for her to get.
That's a significant gift I'm giving her.
It comes with lots of responsilibity though, so it's not for everyone, but if one is mature enough, and smart enough (to filter out problem people!), then it can be a fantastic thing to do.



one can be as mature as one likes mande, done this it destroyed what i thought was a stable happy marriage end of.... and how can you use that the best gift crap as a justification into your argument :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: it might be working now but there are always doubts that creep in, its human nature :evil: :evil:
filter out problems??? its a relationship you are talking about not a car





sorry the car thing is soooooo funny :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
you say bitch like its a bad thing


WARNING the bitch switch is on

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Postby Curious on Wed Feb 21, 2007 5:42 am

No. I have no interest in this type of thing. I love my wife and I would be crushed if she cheated on me so I would never consent to this.

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Postby thephoenix on Wed Feb 21, 2007 11:23 am

Curious wrote:No. I have no interest in this type of thing. I love my wife and I would be crushed if she cheated on me so I would never consent to this.




i wouldnt want this either, i am greedy i want all my b/f and no one else :oops: :oops: :oops: :oops:
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Postby rosie727 on Wed Feb 21, 2007 6:05 pm

thephoenix wrote:
Curious wrote:No. I have no interest in this type of thing. I love my wife and I would be crushed if she cheated on me so I would never consent to this.




i wouldnt want this either, i am greedy i want all my b/f and no one else :oops: :oops: :oops: :oops:




to each his own i suppose we all have differing opinions on this, so maybe its best that we just agree to disagree :wink:
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Postby Mr Black on Wed Feb 21, 2007 8:14 pm

My girlfriend goes on working trips with a male colleague of hers quite regularly. Hate to say this but sometimes I I feel horny just thinking of all the things that they might be doing. He is strong and good looking. I have never felt jealous before, even though I know sometimes they share a single hotel room together.

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Postby eroneus on Thu Feb 22, 2007 8:25 am

I dont think it fair to call a woman a "slut" if she and her husband or lover enjoy seeing her or sharing her. It shows independance of mind and choice for a woman to be brave enough to admit she likes variety - or just simply fun.

There was a time when a woman was called a slut - just for wanting a divorce form an unsatisfactory marriage. Also a time when sex before marriage was considered sluttish.
Brave women helped end this state of affairs - and showed they had every right to enjoy ththeir freedom of choice -as long as they don't hurt others and all is completely consensual.

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Postby Mr Black on Thu Feb 22, 2007 5:47 pm

Likewise for men I suppose, wanting a divorce from an unsatisfactory marriage. It shows independance of mind and choice for a man to be brave enough to admit he likes variety - or just simply fun.

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Postby mr incredible on Fri Feb 23, 2007 12:00 am

eroneus wrote:I dont think it fair to call a woman a "slut" if she and her husband or lover enjoy seeing her or sharing her. It shows independance of mind and choice for a woman to be brave enough to admit she likes variety - or just simply fun.

There was a time when a woman was called a slut - just for wanting a divorce form an unsatisfactory marriage. Also a time when sex before marriage was considered sluttish.
Brave women helped end this state of affairs - and showed they had every right to enjoy ththeir freedom of choice -as long as they don't hurt others and all is completely consensual.


bollocks
on the balance of probabilities its true!!

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Postby conniejones73@yahoo.com on Sat Feb 24, 2007 11:48 am

well on balance there appears to be more curiuos and active at this than not........................looks as though the "ayes" have it

Some interesting replies here though!

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Postby JoN-joN on Sat Mar 03, 2007 5:43 pm

Bump this on a bit, Interesting reviews

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Postby Cinnamon Revenge on Sat Mar 03, 2007 9:15 pm

NO freaking way!

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Postby dayenknight on Thu Mar 22, 2007 12:46 pm

Yes and its been a most rewarding experience my wife and I have had....we have been married for over 30 years and are very happy.

It is not for everyone and certainly not for those who are afraid of losing their relationship with each other, nor is it for those who would try to use it as a fix for a relationship that is shaky or in trouble.

It is also a lifestyle that cannot be understood by people who have never tried it or are insecure within themselves and/or in their relationships.

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Postby guest30 on Fri Mar 30, 2007 1:43 pm

My boyfriend gets really aroused at the thought of me have sex with someone else, he has to be there though. It only works because he is there, it is a turn on for me but mainly because I know he enjoys it. We would not want to do it on a regular basis and definately not with friends, I have known to many people split up ver that one.

Its a bit or erotic excitement and fantasy :twisted:

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Postby markz on Sat Mar 31, 2007 1:57 pm

let he who is without sin cast the first stone :lol:
do I need a signature

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Postby mr incredible on Sat Mar 31, 2007 9:05 pm

markz wrote:let he who is without sin cast the first stone :lol:


come here and prepare to be stoned!
on the balance of probabilities its true!!

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