You don't have to have sex

[KelB]

This Thursday I met up with my man and we went shopping...we had planned to go shopping for lingerie together and pick out something special.....there was no reason for this no special occasion we just wanted to do something different,sexy and fun.

Our first point of call left us dissapointed and we decided to go else where to find something that we both liked. On the way to the next place I decided to lift the mood a little and placed my hand on my mans thigh...slowly massageing him through his trousers, feeling the bulge grow and grow. It was hot because we knew we couldn't go further and we both knew the other one was getting more and more aroused by the minute! As we parked the car he turned to me and gave me the most amazingly passionate kiss ever...it just said 'I WANT YOU NOW' I have to say the feeling was mutual! Anyway...we decided to go and finish what we started and find something for me to wear!....we did find something we both liked. A very sexy bra and knickers set with stockings and suspenders to match! It was sexy and I couldn't wait to get back to try it.....

We arrived back at my mans place and while waiting in the lift he told me he really wanted to kiss me...to which I replied no kissing until I was wearing the outfit he had purchased me to which he agreed it would be best this way......However once in the flat...lights set perfectly and us sitting together on the sofa we began to kiss...not passionatly...not with toungues...just kisses and hands...I began to unbutton his shirt and we were getting hotter and hotter....I went off and started to get myself ready and set the mood...candles...music and me dressed in my 'presents'!

My man came in and was more than happy with the final product! Starting by feeling through the covers then slipping into the bed next to me and kissing me....hands once again going EVERYWHERE and I loved every minute of it.....we got heavier and heavier and I found myself getting very very turned on.
Soon I was giving him a HJ using our fave thing to make it better...baby oil! After a while we he moved lower to my thighs and just kissed the inside of my thighs this in it's self made me tingle all over....he then slipped a finger inside me and was greated by wetness. He made me feel things I'ver never ever felt before....made me orgasm twice with his fingers alone......

The meaning of this is just that I dont think you have to have sex to be satisfied.....sex isnt everything....but another level of your relationship! Anything with love and tenderness is amazing.....and thursday night isnt something I will be forgetting any time soon......

[timbo]

Mybe you don't have to have sex - but a lot of what you talk about sure sounds like sex to me. Since when has a ' giveng a hand job to someone else with the assistance of baby oil' not counted as sex? The thoughts enough to give me a stiffy!

[KelB]

Mybe you don't have to have sex - but a lot of what you talk about sure sounds like sex to me. Since when has a ' giveng a hand job to someone else with the assistance of baby oil' not counted as sex? The thoughts enough to give me a stiffy!

I wouldn't say it's sex at all....it's something sexual for sure...but not actual full on penatration is it??
Glad you liked the thought though lol I love it! Possibly one of my most favorite things to do in fact...I'm not sure why I love it I just do!

I just meant to say really that for those of you out there who are virgins and stuff being in a relationship doesnt mean you have to have sex...there are so many other things you can do!

[Noah W.]

This discussion (a good one, by the way), is just a case of a word having more than one meaning.

Look up "man" in the dictionary. In one sense of the word, it refers to a male member of the human species. In another sense of the word, it refers to all humans (i.e., mankind).

If I were the editor of a dictionary, and had read this post, I would say that sex had these two meanings: (1) an erotic, passionate, or stimulating activity, with the purpose of arousing sexual excitement. (2) sexual intercourse.

No need to argue. You're both right, you're just using two different senses of the word.

[KelB]

This discussion (a good one, by the way), is just a case of a word having more than one meaning.

Look up "man" in the dictionary. In one sense of the word, it refers to a male member of the human species. In another sense of the word, it refers to all humans (i.e., mankind).

If I were the editor of a dictionary, and had read this post, I would say that sex had these two meanings: (1) an erotic, passionate, or stimulating activity, with the purpose of arousing sexual excitement. (2) sexual intercourse.

No need to argue. You're both right, you're just using two different senses of the word.

Two things....thanks for saying the discussion was a good one and secondly thanks for posting a good post in here rather than one that is silly and annoying!

I think both senses of the word are correct!

[Timmy]

if we want to get word-technical, I could point out that sex is defined as the action taken by the male gender and the female gender in an effort to produce offspring of the same species. In which case, casual sex, HJ's, BJ's, Anal, etc... could "technically" be defined as stimulation, rather than sex, because no reproduction is intended, only stimulation is intended.

[KelB]

if we want to get word-technical, I could point out that sex is defined as the action taken by the male gender and the female gender in an effort to produce offspring of the same species. In which case, casual sex, HJ's, BJ's, Anal, etc... could "technically" be defined as stimulation, rather than sex, because no reproduction is intended, only stimulation is intended.

Trust you Timmy to get all word-technical You are correct though...I looked the word up in the dictionary the other day when I was helping my neice with homework (not that it was sex related of course she is only 7 lol) but that was the defintion it gave me about the word sex!

[TStud]

kelb u sound like a rite little sex pot your man is one lucky bloke does he know he is lucky to have a gf who is wanting to dress up for him and please him. i sure hope he does. every man wants a gf like you. are u plannin on doing it again soon,will we get to hear about it then to?

[KelB]

Thanks....yeah he does know..but I'm lucky too! Without him I wouldn't feel how I do everyday....We're both very lucky to have each other I think!

Oh and to answer your question of whether I will do it again soon and will you hear about it.....it's VERY possible that I will do it again soon...and that you might hear about it You'll only hear...he on the other hand will see

[Kels Man]

Hello - I am Kel's man. I do realise how lucky I am to have her - more than you'll ever know! She's wonderful. She does so much for me - not just sexy things - but the way she makes me happy and way she wants to do things for me.

That evening would not have been better if we had had sex. It was just perfect. There was so much love there and love is far, far more important than sex.

What Kel didn't say was that she kept all the underwear on until the morning! So when I woke up, I could feel this sexy, sexy girl in my bed wearing stockings and suspenders!

Another thing that was so nice was that she enjoyed buying it, putting it all on, setting the scene, and she enjoyed wearing it - not wanting to take it all off as soon as she could. And she did it all coz she wanted to and not felt that she had to. That's what was so nice.

(so that Kel knows this is really me, we bought the outfit in Bluewater)

[wishingitwasme]

wow kelb left it on all night? are we talking the whole outfit you bought her? wow that is so F****** hot,i cant believe she did that,you really are one lucky guy kels man. where exactly do i find another kelb? id love to have her as my girlfriend.

[Kels Man]

Yes - ALL of it, ALL night!

Sorry to disappoint you my friend, but KelB is MY girlfriend!

[KelB]

Yes - ALL of it, ALL night!

Sorry to disappoint you my friend, but KelB is MY girlfriend!

He's right....I'm his girlfriend and I'm very VERY happy with him...I don't want or need anyone else....he's everything I want and need and I love him!

Keep a look out...I can't say you'll find a girl like me...but you will find the right girl for you...probaly in the place you least expect it