Everett: 'i'm A Pathetic Lover'.

Everett: 'i'm A Pathetic Lover'.British actor RUPERT EVERETT insists he has never been a good lover because he is either "too vulnerable" or "too selfish".The gay MY BEST FRIEND'S WEDDING star, 47, blames his strict Catholic background and the guilt he associated with sex for his behaviour, which veers from one extreme to another.He says, "Oh, I am a pathetic lover. Being Catholic, coming from a military background, then having that dawning, nagging feeling that I was not going to be on the right side of the fence."It had a knock-on effect on so many things and I felt so guilty for ages about sex, then with AIDS happening it was almost like my worst fears were true."So I don't think I have been a great lover really, no. Not in this lifetime."I am either too selfish or too extreme. Too vulnerable, or too self-centred.I never took myself seriously enough".