Secrets to Will Smith and Jada Pinkett happy marriage
Will Smith has revealed the secret to a happy marriage - asking permission
from your wife before you cheat on her.The 'Men In Black' star says he and his wife of seven years, actress Jada
Pinkett, have made a pact that they can sleep with other people, as long as
it isn't behind each others back.The smitten pair have researched the subject by meeting up with high-profile
divorced couples, including Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman and Bruce Willis
and Demi Moore, to find out what went wrong.
Will, who has confessed to fancying his co-stars, revealed: "Our perspective
is you don't avoid what's natural. You're going to be attracted to people.
In our marriage vows, we didn't say 'forsaking all others'."If it came down to it, then one can say to the other, 'Look, I need to have
sex with somebody. I'm not going to if you don't approve of it - but please
approve of it'."Despite admitting he has sexual feelings for other women, Will is determined
not to split from Jada - and goes to all lengths to ensure they stay
together.He explained: "Every time somebody in Hollywood breaks up, Jada and I go and
find out why.
"With Bruce and Demi, we spent hours talking to them. And Tom and Nicole -
hours, just trying to understand what happened.
"I don't let a day go past that Jada doesn't feel like the Queen of the
World."
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Readers' Comments
#1 by SmartGuy - 11-10-2007 19:39
Dear: Mr. Prince
I admire your oldschool rhymes I memorized some of your songs . I can't wait until you make a new album so I can rock the house again I miss you your so awesome . How... READ MORE
#2 by Camille Milton - 08-12-2007 05:28
I was very surprised and disappointed after reading about a loving and devoted couple having an open marriage. Actually, bluntly speaking I thought that was disguising. Your marriage... READ MORE
#3 by Marsha - 17-12-2007 22:54
Why get married?? This is pure greed
#4 by Betty - 18-12-2007 11:17
I think that it is wonderful they have an open relationship like that. I have been talking to married couples that have been together for a long time and you would be suprised at how co... READ MORE
#5 by WHAT! - 24-12-2007 20:01
I love Will and Jada they are great examples of couples in showbiz. But that is as far as it goes. Their marriage is not a true example of a biblical marriage. The bible say's "forsa... READ MORE
#6 by Colin - 07-01-2008 22:09
They're not in an open relationship idiots...they've stated, through several interviews,that his words were taken out of context....much like they were recently when headlines stated he... READ MORE
#7 by Cynthia - 12-01-2008 05:42
How nasty I have been married for 4 years if my husband would ever come to me with some shit like that... he can pack his shit and get out our house open marriage what a joke
#8 by Tracy - 18-01-2008 00:07
I agree with the others, I often idolized their marriage but the open marriage is a bit much reagardless if your spouse knows about it or not. It is not Godly.
#9 by bouncy - 24-01-2008 01:01
What does it matter to anyone if someone's marriage is open or closed? If they're in love, and it works, why judge?
#10 by Darron - 06-02-2008 03:58
I can see both sides of this. On one side, this is completely immoral and Ungodly. Point Blank. On the other hand, IF they really do have a open marriage, what is it really hurting? If ... READ MORE
#11 by hafsat - 13-02-2008 14:31
geez! it's a secret ai? shd keep being so.
#12 by Brandeon McCullough - 07-03-2008 16:22
i have this boyfriend that i feel he is my mate but he dont respect my like he should are treat me like a queen but i feel that one day day he will learn if i keep showing him how.what ... READ MORE
#13 by M.Carter - 16-03-2008 20:45
I have been married, seperated, now a widow. My marriage was one that I considered the traditional. Open marriage was never an option for me, not agreeably so anyway. Jada and Will are ... READ MORE
#14 by ladime - 17-03-2008 09:11
thats fuckin gross u dam swingers u walkin around actin like you have the happy lil marriage when u kno u both fuckin other people what if one of you get a disease u fuckin nasty pricks... READ MORE
#15 by MarriedWithUnderstanding - 24-03-2008 16:19
All of you folks quoting the bible - TRULY SUCK ASS!!!
Only freaks like bible worshipers think with their minds in the gutter. The bottom line is the word UNDERSTANDING - don't stab... READ MORE
#16 by Rudi - 25-03-2008 02:18
You don't worship the bible, you READ IT! And because you read it and maybe also worship the Lord doesn't quite make anyone sucking ass either. Thanks for the lame label! Love it! A... READ MORE
#17 by Melissa - 16-04-2008 19:14
I don't understand why people are judging their decisions so harshly. It's for their relationship and doesn't effect you at all. If you don't like the idea of sleeping with other people... READ MORE
#18 by Charmaine - 29-05-2008 04:22
I love Will and Jada, but when you marry someone, you are commiting your whole self to that person for the rest of your life. Marriage is about maturing and strength. Anyone can submit ... READ MORE
#19 by Montrice - 30-05-2008 19:15
Wow Will and Jada are some freaks !!! LOL !!! Hey you can't be mad @ them, most marriges fail because one of the parties cheat or either for financial reasons. So hey if it work for the... READ MORE
#20 by Finally, someone gets it!! - 30-05-2008 19:19
I totally agree with Will and Jada!! It is not natural for a man to only one woman for the rest of his life. Its like eating at the same restaurant everyday--FOREVER!! Sounds good d... READ MORE
#21 by lindsay - 20-06-2008 21:05
Umm......you sound like a douche bag. Do you think all women want to stay with the same man for the rest of their lives? The table turns both ways you know...
#22 by Duckywall - 10-07-2008 20:49
Wellllllllll, now I know why they have stayed together so long. Will mentioned his vows but they made a covenant to God. The bible plainly gives instruction on adultery. Scientology i... READ MORE
#23 by MEANDSEVEN - 10-07-2008 23:55
Once again close minded people show their true colors. Yeah jackass couples that dont do research and take every measure to ensure that they and their partner is safe deserve what they ... READ MORE
#24 by April - 11-07-2008 16:14
Then why get married? It makes no sense. If she's "the queen of the world", why sleep with other women? Man, people have no boundaries anymore. It makes me sick.
#25 by Natasha - 11-07-2008 18:36
Happily ever after is accomplished however those who make that vow determine it. It seems many are missing the point. They have professed to being open in that they will converse about ... READ MORE
#26 by Tebo - 11-07-2008 20:34
Keep in mind that marriage is a 2000-plus year old institution created for people who barely made it to the age of 32. It was designed to ensure the proper up bringing of offspring. Aft... READ MORE
#27 by ICH - 15-07-2008 19:24
The concept of "open marriage" completely eludes me. If bed-hopping is the way to remain married then the union should be dissolved posthaste! It's already DEAD.
We all have eyes and... READ MORE
#28 by auramac - 15-07-2008 21:58
I've always believed that two consenting adults can do whatever they want as long as it doesn't involve lies or violence.
However, now I have another reason to dislike Will Smith, wh... READ MORE
#29 by Shorty - 17-07-2008 16:59
I am very disappointed in Will and Jada. Their marriage is no marriage. Hell if they wanted to sleep with other people, then why in the hell get married. I do not agree with their co... READ MORE
#30 by BMM - 21-07-2008 19:07
Hi Ich, not trying to lecture you because you are grown. but news flash. Every man cheats. Either you know about it are you don't. But please don't think for one minute that your husban... READ MORE
#31 by Queen - 24-07-2008 19:08
He said that IF he WERE to cheat he'd ask in other articles including this one he did not say he has cheated. He actually has stated that he would try his best not to cheat on Jada. C... READ MORE
#32 by Shanette - 25-07-2008 00:21
This is so damn stupid. Why get married if you're not going to commit to each other. That's a waste of time, and it's adding more drama to your marriage. I can guarantee you that the ma... READ MORE
#33 by Skineficial - 25-07-2008 02:59
I am going to have to agree with what most people say here. Why get married at all if you aren't ready to be committed to that ONE person? This is no "love" secret - its simply permissa... READ MORE
#34 by koyce - 28-07-2008 09:19
i do agree that two consenting adults are allowed to do whatever works for them, and that includes Will and Jada. it's funny that even though we have these huge concepts (such as marri... READ MORE
#35 by Micky - 28-07-2008 14:53
It is funny how the nay sayers of this article are "against" an honest and open relationship. Why allow someone the freedom to choose when you can control another with jealousy and rul... READ MORE
#36 by David - 05-08-2008 20:52
Hey will can I sleep with Jada? I'm asking now so it does not bother you later!
#37 by maverickpenn - 12-08-2008 05:57
i was surprised to find out that will & jada had an open marriage. its not something that i could see me and my wife doing but i wont judge others that do it. and all men don't cheat!! ... READ MORE
#38 by billy - 13-08-2008 20:09
I honestly feel like its all wrong no matter how you look at it because its against gods will. You cant go and make your own rules to marriage. So going to Tom and his wife is the last ... READ MORE
#39 by Phyllis - 19-08-2008 17:33
My question is if a couple chooses to do that, why get married? It doesn't seem logical to me. Inevitably, that arrangement is not going to succeed with human emotion involved. If the o... READ MORE
#40 by VENITA H - 23-08-2008 06:35
IS THIS FOR REAL ARE YOU SERIOUS.. I HOPE THIS IS A JOKE.. BECAUSE CHEATING IS CHEATING RATHER THE SPOUSE KNOWS OR NOT ..DISAGREES OR AGREES.. BUT WE ARE TALKING ABOUT HOLLYWOOD FOLKS..... READ MORE
#41 by B Jordan - 25-08-2008 16:53
I am deeply disappointed from what I am reading if this is true. What examples are you giving your children? Stay with your mate but if your attracted to someone else just go with the f... READ MORE
#42 by bill gates - 28-08-2008 18:40
are you ALL stupid and ignorant. why get married:because they want to. why have sex with someone else: because they want to. what example are they setting for their kids: that a couple ... READ MORE
#43 by L. P. - 04-09-2008 16:02
Good for them. Many people don't understand this type of relationship but if it works for them more power to them. Statistically open marriages are happier and last longer than traditio... READ MORE
#44 by kelly - 06-09-2008 18:48
What happened to Thou shalt not commit adultry? It is a sin to sleep with other people and married. Apparently they forgot about that one, and why get married if you're going to have in... READ MORE
#45 by Jill - 13-09-2008 20:08
by kelly
What happened to Thou shalt not commit adultry? It is a sin to sleep with other people and married. Apparently they forgot about that one, and why get married if you're goin... READ MORE
#46 by Jill - 13-09-2008 20:17
by Phyllis
My question is if a couple chooses to do that, why get married?
Answer:(Why get married: because it's a free country... they have as much right to get married as the n... READ MORE
#47 by Jill - 13-09-2008 20:27
Please note in this article neither Will or Jada actually said they've done it. They just said if they wanted to they would ask the other, and would not do it if the other said 'No'. ... READ MORE
#48 by J - 14-09-2008 06:33
I'm so disappointed and lost much respect for the both of them. I always looked at them with pride as not only a Hollywood couple, but a black couple that is defying all statistics. Tha... READ MORE
#49 by Sadielove504 - 26-09-2008 15:50
I am very hurt. I have idolized this couple for years. I have even said I wont marry until I fine my own Will Smith. I wont judge them, its not for man to judge. I still love them both,... READ MORE
#50 by scorpio 26 - 28-09-2008 17:16
over the years that will and jada smith have been married,i have really admired their love ,thier chemistry and their devotion to each other. its rare to see love like this in any color... READ MORE
#51 by brahman - 10-10-2008 04:54
Get it over people!!! This is such bullshit.
#52 by Linda Smith - 14-10-2008 07:29
Kate Hudson said the same thing about her husband until they split - and now she's bouncing from relationship to relationship - this kind of thing MIGHT seem ok for the temporary, but i... READ MORE
#53 by ann - 17-10-2008 05:18
this is such a bullshit marriage they dont love each other with that type of bullshit my husband better not ever tell me he desire anotha woman i thought they were cute toghether but th... READ MORE
#54 by apickett - 20-10-2008 19:39
i had a lot of respect for this couple and admired them for the way they put family first and if they loved each other like they claim and jada is his queen then how could he want to be... READ MORE
#55 by none's Business - 07-11-2008 05:15
I always thought Will Smith looked a bit too happy all the time. Like he got "everything" he wanted. Very strange choice they have made for themselves and perhaps it keeps them marrie... READ MORE
#56 by Cynthia - 11-11-2008 21:41
Thats the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. If thats the case they should have remained single. Does anyone read the bible. WOW!!
#57 by Tonia - 15-11-2008 23:22
I must admit, I was shocked to hear that jada approved of such infidelity. Deep down to you Jada, something special has to be missing within you to belittle your standards for the sake ... READ MORE
#58 by shocked - 18-11-2008 15:11
WHYYYYYYY!!! I always thought they were the modern day bill and clair but no they had to go and tell us this!! I have lost so much respect for them :( :( :(
#59 by Seriously - 11 months ago 01st Dec 10:07
ok itseems strange and althjo im a 17 yr old (wht du i know) church-every-week-christian... (same as will) at this m,oment im not so sure wht they dion is bad of corse they loveeachothe... READ MORE
#60 by L - 11 months ago 05th Dec 15:05
Well there are the go-to-church-once a week Christians that think thats what makes them Christians and there are those that know being a Christian is striving to do things God's way...w... READ MORE
#61 by WHATTTTTTTTT??????????!!!!!!! - 11 months ago 05th Dec 17:13
I don't believe it! They were my model couple. They were the one Hollywood couple that I enjoyed watching. And to say that it's natural to be attracted to others, yes it is, but not to ... READ MORE
#62 by Lovely2455 - 11 months ago 07th Dec 19:43
I actually admire the fact they are not denying something natural, in the bible (if your reading) men were married to sisters, multiple women, they even broke there covenets because of ... READ MORE
#63 by God is Love - 11 months ago 08th Dec 18:29
StUpId is as StUpId does.....
#64 by NeechyLou - 11 months ago 09th Dec 02:43
Wow. There is so much judgment coming from the comments below. Modeling your own relationship after someone else's is flawed from the very beginning. Only you and your husband/wife can ... READ MORE
#65 by msanonymous4sure - 11 months ago 14th Dec 22:11
i personally thnk its absurd dat they have that kind of relationship but what i respect about them is dat they've mutually agreed 2 b dat way, its totally their business.
#66 by msanonymous4sure - 11 months ago 14th Dec 23:50
i personally thnk its absurd dat they have dat kind of marriage, but if dats somethng they've agreed on mutually dats their business. its working for them
#67 by Power of Love - 11 months ago 16th Dec 15:54
I don't believe for a minute that WILL SMITH AND JADA SMITH HAVE THAT KIND OF MARRIAGE. If they do I will like to know what bible they are reading and who is the God that they are prayi... READ MORE
#68 by lalana - 11 months ago 16th Dec 18:52
Ok... seriously, no one is asking you to try this, or telling you it's the only way to live. It's a choice that THEY made together, as to what would work best for THEIR marriage. I do... READ MORE
#69 by PattyQ - 10 months ago 02nd Jan 03:46
I thought Will and Jada were something special. I admired them so. I'm like a kid finding out there is no Santa. What a huge disappointment.
#70 by SamC - 10 months ago 07th Jan 03:01
Yes, it's **so** disappointing to see that two people who are in love with each other will go to great lengths to seek, and find, happiness with each other in a responsible and caring w... READ MORE
#71 by Bang - 10 months ago 08th Jan 11:59
Hey, ultimately it's all about how they make it work for them. What we think is not going to change their method. There maybe method in their madness. I just want to say that i too thou... READ MORE
#72 by Law - 10 months ago 20th Jan 03:50
I truly feel sorry for the both of them. Marriage is serious covenant vows between them and God. No one takes God and our Lord Jesus Christ serious anymore and the promises or consequ... READ MORE
#73 by dregutta - 10 months ago 23rd Jan 01:46
It's Hard To Hear Something Like This About Someone You Look Up 2.
#74 by Sister Red - 9 months ago 09th Feb 02:45
Why get married if you are going to commit adultery. I don't care if it is a pack between him and Jada that doesn't make it right. Marriage is suppose to unit two people who can't see t... READ MORE
#75 by A*Rock - 9 months ago 12th Feb 23:01
I can't believe how everyone is still shocked in 2009 that a power couple could have an open marriage. Everyone who brough up the bible in their comments are living through dogma writte... READ MORE
#76 by ANGELA R. DIMAURO - 9 months ago 14th Feb 01:20
TO THE PERSON THAT FEELS LIKE MENTIONING THE BIBLE IS RIDICULOUS, IT'S PROBABLY BECAUSE YOU HAVE NO CLUE AS TO WHAT GOD'S WORD SAYS ON MARRIAGE COVENANT. NO ONE IS CRITICIZING THEM. SI... READ MORE
#77 by Leaha - 8 months ago 20th Mar 07:24
WOW i cannot believe that but whatever floats their boat lol. Will call me...
#78 by John Dip - 7 months ago 20th Apr 06:58
the bible, THE BIBLE! r u kidding me, men wrote the bible only hundred of years ago, yet man existed for tens of thousands of years, at least. Who says what a marriage is about? Are y... READ MORE
#79 by Kel - 5 months ago 28th May 03:41
This saddens me, I am about to get married and I cannot see myself being with someone other than my fiance, why get married if you cant commit to just each other.
#80 by i love a lot - 5 months ago 03rd Jun 22:23
great actors and a great couple that does not accept what every christian wants to tell 'em. searching for answers for yourself and not repeating what someone said centuries in the past... READ MORE
#81 by henson - 5 months ago 20th Jun 21:13
I hope this is not true. If so, I'm very disappointed in both of them. If it's true, they have the right to live their lives as they wish. I, in turn, have the right to turn my back o... READ MORE
#82 by Shawn - 4 months ago 02nd Jul 19:22
I feel sorry for those who need to push their religious beliefs onto others. Why can't you just accept that not everyone thinks as you do and your criticism to yourself? Let people be... READ MORE