Cheating

Cheating

According to Irwin Mitchell Solicitors, there are ten main reasons for relationship dissolution, so we find out what they are and how you can avoid them.

We stopped communicating- Communication is key to the success of any relationship or how else would you know where each of you is at emotionally? Or what you want for the future?

We took each other for granted- If you are together a while, you can start to think you deserve each other and without putting in any effort- when in fact, the only way you do deserve each other is to try and prove that you do in your actions and in your words.

Money worries- Some couples hide their spending habits from one another, or they are too controlling with their income and if both don’t agree on how to handle their money then this can cause massive amounts of friction and deceit.

We stopped having sex- Sex is what sets you apart from being simply friends. If you stop having it you might as well just be roommates.

We never saw each other- Work commitments, hobbies and overbearing friendships or family can all take time away from your partner and you become like ships that pass in the night.

Boredom- Relationships can become the same- the same habits, same sex, same conversations, same holidays and sooner or later one of you gets bored of the entire relationship.

We grew apart- Couples learn to live without each other as they become more involved with their friends and their hobbies and suddenly they realise that they are able to cope as if they are single again.

We stopped any form of affection whatsoever- Once you stop showing other affection you can both forget what it feels like and so stop craving it so much. Then the sex stops.

Infidelity/one person cheating- Sleeping with another person shows that there is nothing left for you with your partner and they crave the attention, company and sexual contact of someone else. They have moved on.

We should never have got together in the first place- If you got together because it was convenient or you both just wanted to be in a relationship, or you have been forced together by friends or family, or because you feel like you couldn’t ever get anyone else to love you- what seemed like a good idea at the time will soon wear off.

 


by for relationships.femalefirst.co.uk
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