Trust Your Gut : How to Know When He’s The One - page 2

21-11-2007 16:51

I told her in no uncertain terms, Marie, make up your mind; are you looking for a long term relationship or just a bit of lust to tide you over?

To predict your prospects of this as your ideal man to spend the rest of your life with you should put him through the all telling Psychic Assessment, to get into his soul and discover if you really are mated.

Getting into his Soul

  • 1. Sit quietly on your own. Feel in your gut where the butterflies fly, does it feel calm beneath the turmoil?
  • 2. When you talk about him to others is it from the reality or the potential of the relationship?
  • 3. Do you think about the ways you would change him?
  • 4. Do you think he believes you are his perfect partner?
  • 5. Are you scared of commitment but think you could get over it with this man?
  • 6. Can you talk to each other in a natural way or do you have to be courageous?
  • 7. Does it feel right?

Everyone has intuition and a ‘psychic’ side it is a matter of tapping into this part of you to discover the reality of a situation. This is when you can view your relationship honestly and instinctively. Sometimes when too close to a situation it is hard to tell or we try and make it fit what’s comfortable. Tapping into your intuitive side allows you to have an outside view looking in. People describe this as ‘just knowing’.

Marie thought her new man was the one. He ticked many boxes but somehow instinctively she wasn’t quite sure hence she asked for my viewpoint. I felt the ‘energy’ of the relationship wasn’t quite right and he was a temporary boyfriend who would be followed by the real thing. Sure enough a few months later the relationship fizzled. His values did not match her, she had fallen for the potential of the relationship rather than who he was. Her next boyfriend caught her by surprise, a lovely chap who she normally ‘wouldn’t look twice at.’ Nervous but attentive he has his own life and interests. Taking it slowly, without rushing, he wanted to get to know her. Today they are engaged, living a very happy life, I’ve bought my hat, it’s a summer wedding.

Let us know below if you have any questions you would like Heidi to answer

Heidi Sawyer BA (hons) is a Psychic Consultant & Course Director for the Institute of Psychic Development and author of Why M y Mother Didn’t Want Me To Be Psychic – The intelligent Guide to the Sixth Sense

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Readers' Comments

#1 by WATTLEBLOOM - 23-11-2007 06:52

i REALY DO NOT KNOW HOW ONE PERSON CAN HAVE ALL THE ANSWERS. AS FOR ME WELL I HAVE A GUT FEELING ABOUT THE WAY WE WOMEN CONDUCT OURSELVS IN MATTERS OF SEX I BELIEVE IT IS ALL GOING TO BLOW UP IN OUR FACES.

#2 by Angela - 06-02-2008 08:51

Everyone is different and will experince different things. I feel it is not just going with your gut, but what you're feeling in your heart as well. I say definately take the time to ge... READ MORE

#3 by Eva - 15-03-2008 23:46

I'm not sure the man I'm dating is the right one either. I'm so terrified of getting hurt that I look for problems constantly. So is it my gutt or self preservation?

#4 by chloe ryan - 27-05-2008 07:34

i dont care what anyone else says, but im completely sure of my true of my love, and i can say that confidently. i know people have their doubts about couples as young as we are, but im... READ MORE

#5 by chloe - 27-05-2008 07:37

PLEASE READ MY COMMENT RIGHT THERE. i want everyone to know. ...thanx = )

#6 by chloe - 27-05-2008 07:41

if 'angela' is still online, i would like to say i liked what you had to say. =]
- it was very inspiring - and quite true by the way.
thank you.

#7 by Seriously_Confused - 01-08-2008 17:19

I've just read the article and I have to say I feel know better off. I've been with my fiance for two and a half years, my longest relationship for two years 2 weeks! I haven't had the ... READ MORE

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