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If it feels good and you aren't going to harm yourself, it's okay. Orgasm and the pleasure is the goal and however you get there is up to the individual woman, If you want to learn more about masturbating, then read on.
Set the mood: First set up a comfortable environment for yourself. If you're going to use toys, get them to hand. Set the mood, maybe read an erotic book, or watch an erotic film, think of a past sexual experience that really turns you on or fantasize about one you'd like to have.
The clitoris has no other function than to give a woman pleasure so stop wasting the gift that is unique to us ladies.
To stimulate your clitoris you can use your hands, fingers, knuckles, a shower head, running water, vibrators rubbing up against an object, anything that will stimulate the clitoris. The clitoris is the one organ on our bodies that is purely for sexual pleasure, something unique in women.
Women are very excited by stimulation of the G Spot but most women are unable to orgasm unless they receive some clitoral stimulation. Other women can not have clitoral stimulation until they are aroused, as the clitoris is so sensitive, whilst yet others just find clitoral stimulation ineffective in producing an orgasm.
Using your fingers or hand, you rub, stroke or pinch the actual clitoris, also rub the area around the clitoris. One good method is to grab the skin around the clitoris between thumb and forefinger and rub it together, and speaking from experience this works for me. The clitoris is a mini penis, although much more sensitive, so you can play with it and stroke it, just like you would a penis.
The shower massager head can be wonderful too, a head where you can adjust the stream of water from a steady, gentle stream and then a more powerful jet spray can be quite exciting. Just be careful to not send strong streams of water into the vagina for a very long period of time because it can cause air embolism.
Vibrators are great. Use a Lovehoney Happy Rabbit Natural Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator, or try several different ones for different days and different moods, variety is the spice of life. Hold the vibrator up against your clitoris to feel the maximum amount of vibrations, if yours is to sensitive to that, you can also hold the vibrator around the general area. If the vibrations are too strong, just put a some fine material between you and the vibrator and that will reduce the intensity.
There are many toys out there that are specifically made to locate and stimulate the g-spot, like the G Pulse, vibrator or try some type of dildo, I recommend a glass one as these hold lubricant and can be used hot or cold depending on your mood, it will also feel as though you are being penetrated good if you are fantasising. Although, if you can locate your g-spot and can manipulate it and stimulate it with your fingers to your pleasure, then all the better, most women do find it easier to use some kind of toy.
The anus is a very sensitive area of the body, with thousands of very sensitive nerve endings. It holds a lot of tension and can be associated with a lot of misery, but when given some loving, it can take you to a higher level. Explore the area with your fingers, just rubbing or tickling the area, or insert a small anal toy use plenty of lubricant as the anus unlike the vagina does not produce its own lubrication. Always use an anal stimulator with a flared base.
There's always just pure penetration for the feeling of penetration. There are many different types of dildo's and vibrating dildos on the market. These are great for the times when you just want basic simple pleasure. These dildos come with no fancy attachments, it's just a dildo to penetrate yourself with, a substitute penis. For times like this I love to get my glass dildo out lub it and retire to the shower, unbeatable. If you want things even less complicated then just use you fingers.
Touching, rubbing, fondling and even attaching nipple clamps, or use The Nipple and Clit Seducer, this provides suction to the nipples and can be very exciting. If you're breasts are large enough, try licking your nipples yourself, your breasts are a wonderful erogenous zone that should not be ignored during any type of sex play.
Remember though there is no right way to do it, you don't need to be naked, just relax and explore your body and see what feels good, experiment with the tiny yet powerful purse vibrator you can satisfy the urge almost at anytime. It's your choice, just have fun. That's the point of sex and sexual play, having fun doing it.
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