by Lucy Walton |
If you’re a first timer, bored of your masturbation routine or want to increase your sexual pleasure, then look no further as we talk you through perfect masturbation for girls!
Set the Mood
Make sure that you are comfortable- light some candles if you are going to use toys get them out of your sex box; read an erotic book or watch some porn; let your mind wander onto a sexual fantasy you have not yet fulfilled or one that really turned you on!
A clitoris is purely designed for sexual pleasure; this is a woman’s greatest gift so don’t neglect it! Use your fingers, a shower head, running water, vibrators anything that will get this little gem to shine!
Most women find it hard to orgasm without touching the clitoris despite the excitement a little g-spot action can create. Only a lucky few can orgasm from g-spot stimulation alone.
One good way to get yourself off is to take the skin around the clitoris and rub it together. Or you can stroke it, rub it or gently pinch it- it’s all about personal preference so whatever works for you.
Turn your boring shower on a morning into and exciting masturbation session and use the shower head and its different pressures to get yourself off!
Try a few different designs to find one that suits you. The Jessica Rabbit 2.0 Rabbit Vibrator is a great place to start as it has g-spot and clitoral stimulation as well as many different speed settings, so you are getting three times the pleasure for your money. If your clitoris is too sensitive, then use the vibrator around the general area, or put it against your clitoris through your knickers to reduce the intensity.
Again there is a lot of choice for g-spot vibrators, however glass dildos, such as the Tracey Cox Supersex Glass Dildo Set are great as they hold the lubricant and can be used hot or cold depending on your mood. Although many women find easier using a toy, you can also use your fingers to stimulate it.
The anus has many nerve endings and holds a lot of tension, so needs a little more care and attention. Explore it by rubbing or tickling it or use small anal toy, like the Lovehoney BASICS Smoothy Anal Prober, with lashings of lube as it doesn’t produce its own lubricant. Always use an anal toy with a flared base, so its doesn’t go anywhere you don’t want it too!
If all you want is simple penetration there there are lots of products on the market to do just that! Either a dildo or a vibrator can satisfy this urge. They might not come with fancy attachments but are great if all you are looking for is penetration.
Touching, rubbing, fondling and even attaching clamps or suction to the nipples can all be very exciting. If you're breasts are large enough, try licking your nipples yourself, your breasts are a wonderful erogenous zone that should not be ignored during any type of sex play.
There is not right or wrong way to masturbate, you can do it totally naked or explore your body with your clothes still on. Carry around handbag sized vibrator, like the Tracey Cox Supersex Bullet Vibrator so if you feel the urge to be naughty on the run, you have a back up! Remember to have fun and do what works for you and enjoy!