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Four Mistakes Men Make in Bed

4th January 2012

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Men you're doing it wrong well that is according to some women.

The most experienced of us men can make a mistake in the bedroom from time to time but some guys end up fumbling around in the dark more than they should be doing.
 
So what are the common mistakes men make in bed, that their partners are just too polite to tell here are four of the most common.
 
Not taking a cue from their women
 
Women complain that men don't listen to them and believe me it's true, it is also true in the bedroom.Guys its most likely your male ego, that little voice in your head that says,'I know it better than she does.' take a tip look and listen and she will soon be purring.
 
Another common complaint is 'not warming up the engine properly before hitting the accelerator.
 
In simple terms - foreplay, foreplay, and yet more foreplay! Little foreplay can cause a multitude of unwanted emotions when it comes to sex, women need it more than the guys.
 
Lack of grooming
 
Men, a thought worth remembering although women may actually like smells as in perfume, most women won't find their men smelling anything but clean and fresh a turn-on. So guys don't be lazy, good personal hygiene is a must and while you are at it have a shave oh and a waxing would not go miss either.
 
Staying Silent
 
You have a voice - use it. Remember women can get very turned on by a sexy voice in bed--especially if it can tell them what it's going to do.
 
But girls you should also remember guys have very fragile ego's so go gently with him if your man's got it all wrong. Laying it on the line can be deflating--in more ways than one. So don't tell a man that he's doing it wrong, rather you need to tell him how you like it and how good it feels when he does this or does that. Give him positive feedback and he'll learn quickly what you like and don't after all you are more wily at getting what you want.
 
It's worth remembering when we are naked we are at our most vulnerable in more ways than one, and there is a lot of ego invested in a mans ability to be a world class lover. Guys need to hear that they are good enough and importantly that they are 'big enough'.
 

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