Most women find it difficult to orgasm from Sex alone but that doesn’t mean it’s impossible, a few tips and tricks should help you along the path to the big O.
Position Does Matter
During penetrative Sex, your clitoris gets the least attention but it’s the most important part when it comes to orgasm. The best position it increase your chances of orgasm is doggie-style as it allow for deep penetration.
Whilst he’s inside you, stimulate your clitoris and if you’re comfortable with it, ask him to stimulate your anus as well. This triple stimulation will be sure to give you a great orgasm.
Don’t Wait Until Sundown
Most people wait until the end of the day to have sex but the best time is in the morning. This is because in the evening, not only are you tired but stress releases the hormone cortisol, which dampens your sex drive.
In the morning both of your testosterone levels are much higher so set your alarm early and give him a hot wake up call.
Take A Deep Breath
We’re all guilty of it, being on top and breathing in so that our tummy isn’t wobbling all over the place but this could stop you getting to orgasm.
Deep breathes are the key to reaching orgasm so slow your breathing and take deeper breathes to increase blood flow down below.
Noise Is Good
Nothing is more awkward than silent sex, so making some noise is good to get you both off. Heavy breathing, moaning and sighing will make you both more aroused.
Although you don’t want to be talking all the way through, giving direction is a must. Guiding him to what feels good in a positive way will get you just what you want and he’ll love the fact that you’re playing teacher.
Make Sure You Get Yours
You’re nearly there, so close to orgasm that you can taste it but then he finishes and you’re on a massive come down. Don’t let it stop there; make sure you get your orgasm by letting him know that your needs are just as important as his.
Focus on trying to orgasm first and if that doesn’t work then tell him you want him to help you finish then either pass him your vibrator or ask him to go down on you. Giving him direction will turn him on all over again and have him ravishing you in no time.
How did you achieve your best orgasm? Let us know by commenting below or tweeting us @FemaleFirst_UK.
Cara Mason
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