All You Wanted To Know About The G-Spot - page 2

03 November 2009

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Some women say that it is much easier to stimulate their G-spot once they are already very turned on by clitoral stimulation, so have a lot of foreplay.

Positioning yourself with your hips pushed forward can help you get there, pull your knees toward your chest and put a pillow under your hips.

During intercourse, in the missionary position with your man high up on you. This causes the base of his penis to stimulate both the clitoris and the G-spot! A variation would be with him standing up and you on a counter that positions him slightly above your point of entry.

Another position that works well is rear entry, on all fours the angle allows his penis to put pressure on the anterior wall where the G-spot is. Experiment with your legs being together, a little bit apart, or spread wide. Also see what it’s like to bend far forward or stretch up, on your tummy, or sitting back onto his lap.

When on top, try sliding yourself forward and back, without bouncing up and down. This action can stimulate both your clitoris and your G-spot. Also try leaning back, bracing yourself with your hands on his legs or the bed so that you can move up and down. Your lover can help bring you to orgasm by using his fingers to play with your clitoris, holding onto your hips, or pushing himself up toward you.

Remember that as a woman, you probably need to be mentally and emotionally stimulated because physically stimulation for sex to be fantastic. So set the scene so you aren’t distracted will help you fully experience the ecstasy.

Open up communication during sexual encounters. Especially because it is difficult for most women to "let go," it can be extremely helpful to have a word of encouragement from your lover when you feel like holding back.

Make sure your partner’s fingernails are clipped and clean if you can. Because the G-spot is generally something you want to massage with more force than other areas, so avoiding scratching.

Remember that stimulating your G-spot is most likely to produce an extra strong fulfilling orgasm if there is plenty of foreplay. The increased blood flow to your genital area as you get turned on makes all parts of you more sensitive.

Sometimes the G-spot area and the clitoris can be too sensitive to enjoy. If you think this might be the case, try asking your partner to stimulate other parts of your body at the same time. For example get him to stroke your anus while attempting to arouse the G-spot, massage your breasts, kiss your inner thighs, or grab onto your thighs and buttocks. He could caress your tummy, rib cage, back, shoulders or feet. Even some gentle scratching can help distract you from the intensity of overstimulation.

Research shows that stimulation of the G-spot greatly increases one’s pain threshold. The outcome is that gentle biting or scratching can be very erotic and feel great if the G-spot is being stimulated. Some say the G-spot is responsible for easing some pain during childbirth.