Turn your man into a Sexpert - Sex tips from a Real Male Escort

23 October 2008

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How to turn even the shiest boyfriend into a lustful lothario. If you’re not getting what you want, follow these tips on how to ensure that your guy knows your g-spot from your g-string. Experienced Escort Luke provides subtle ways in which to manipulate your man.

1. Men tend to be turned on by visuals, so make an effort and dress sexily. He’ll thank you for it, and it’ll send out the message to the shiest of lads that you’re available for him if he makes his move.

2. Start the foreplay rolling by asking your man to give you a massage and then direct his hands to where you really want them to go with the level of touch that turns you on. It’s learning through play.

3. To really spice things up, take the initiative. Bring sex toys into the bedroom without warning him! Treat it as a session of mutual exploration.

4, Call a spade a spade. Swear words can have real potency, especially if normally butter wouldn’t melt in your mouth!

5. Talk yourself around your body in front of him. Touch yourself and tell him about how much pleasure it’s bringing you.

6. Gently explore his whole body with your lips, tongue and fingers. Nibble his ear lobes, lightly stroke his inner thighs, lick his chest. Take it very slowly so that by the time you get to penetrative sex, both of you will have reached boiling point.

7. To prevent a guy ejaculating too soon, don’t build up the action to quickly. Masturbate beforehand, change position regularly, take things slowly, and halt the sex at the first sign he’s getting close. If the sex is still over too soon, bolster his self-esteem by pointing out how much you enjoyed the foreplay to help him live to lust another day.

8. Don’t just lie there but let your body express its pleasure when he hits the spot. Verbally guide and compliment him too but don’t criticise him should he make the wrong moves. Use words of encouragement to get what you want.

9. Spice him up by saying what you’d really like to do to him, and what works for you too. Tell each other what you find sexy about them. Compliment him on how well he’s doing and it’ll encourage him to compliment you back. It’ll turn him on too. If he’s not hitting the spot, don’t criticise him but instead direct him to where he definitely will!

10. Don’t kid yourself that sex the first night you meet a guy will likely lead to a long-term relationship. If you give it to him on a plate, why should he stick around? Hold back a while until feelings develop (be a little mysterious)and there’ll be a depth to your lovemaking you wouldn’t have otherwise reached.

Luke Bradbury is the author of Under Cover the true story of his experience working as a Male Escort. Luke knows everything there is to know about women; from the kind of sex they really want, to the importance of listening to his clients in order to give them the ultimate pleasure.

Under Cover will have you begging for more as Luke reveals the highs and lows of Male Escort work in his personal account of a gigolo for hire on the London scene.

Under Cover by Luke Bradbury is published by Avon on the 29th October RRP £6.99.