The truth is, everyone likes something different so there is no right or wrong way, but here are some tips to get you started on the path to pleasure.
Firstly, you’ve got to make sure there’s lots of lubrication. You can either use your own spit or if you’re going to be down there a while, you can use a flavoured lubrication to make the experience better for both of you.
The idea of oral sex is to replicate intercourse, so take his penis in your mouth and suck up and down his shaft, mimicking intercourse.
Make sure that your teeth don’t graze his penis when you’re sucking, it won’t be pleasant for your man!
It’s important that you let him know that you’re enjoying giving him oral sex. If he thinks that you’re having a bad time then it’ll bring him down too.
Make soft moans as you’re taking him in and don’t be mechanical about the whole thing. Change your rhythm, intensity and speed to keep him excited. Taking him to the brink of orgasm and bringing him back will have him in blow job heaven.
Using your hands is a must. The average penis is 5-6 inches and the mouth is only 2-3, so use your hand at the same rhythm as your mouth to give him a great experience.
It’s important to focus on other aspects too. Playing with his testicles will turn him on massively, so try tickling them or very gently sucking on them, this’ll have him under the thumb and will be a turn on for you too.
Another great thing to do is to focus on the tip of his penis, it’s super sensitive so licking and sucking it will have his mind blown.
It’s often thought that gagging during sex is a no, no. It is in fact a massive yes! It will give you man the impression that he is too big for your mouth, giving him a massive confidence boost. A little trick to make your man think he’s hitting the back of your mouth is to press your tongue against the roof of your mouth and then slip him under your tongue.
Every man is different, so keep eye contact when performing on him to keep check on his reactions to what you try. This’ll give a clear indication of what his does and doesn’t enjoy.
The big question: to spit or swallow? It really is about personal preference, if you can’t stand the thought of him ejaculating in your mouth then make sure he either withdraws or have some tissues on standby so you can spit his sperm into them.
Men don’t mind which you do, but if you do happen to like swallowing, then foods such as fruits and things that naturally high in sugar will improve the taste of your man’s junk.
Remember, STIs can be passed through Oral Sex so if you’re unsure of your partners sexual past then always use a condom to avoid infection.
Cara Mason @FemaleFirst_UK
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by Dona 01st Aug 2012 10:20
Good tips! I was looking around the net for oral sex tips, but it's hard to find info that actually works.