Men often say that we are complicated creatures, but if you read on you will see that in dating- we are just as easy to read when we are trying to convey attraction according to Meetville.com.

Relationships on Female First

Relationships on Female First

The Glance- If we look at you over our shoulder, most of the time or have prolonged eye contact- we are totally into you.

Body language- If we angle our body towards yours then we are showing you that we feel comfortable with entering your personal space. And if you want to enter ours that would be ok too.

Body language is a great way for us to communicate to a guy that we fancy them;

“Strong eye contact is one of the most important sign,” tells dating coach for men Michael Valmont. “It’s not the only sign though; girls often bite their lower lip or touch their lips when they are interested. If she looks relaxed, and sits close to you with an open posture (arms relaxed instead of crossed and shoulders facing toward you), it’s a sign that she feels comfortable in your presence. If you catch her staring at you while you’re not looking, and then turning away as soon as she sees your eyes move toward her, it’s a great sign that she’s into you.”

The reaction- If we dig you- we want to know that you find us funny and interesting- if we look like were waiting for you to pull an appropriate face- we probably are.

Standing in the range- If we stand close to you- then we are showing you that we are just one small step away if you feel like talking to us again. Please do.

Inventiveness- If we come up with some weird-ass idea to stand next to you like- we’re cold or we like this particular part of the bar- it’s because we want to be close to you.

The Joke- If you tell a stinker of a joke that doesn’t even get your mates laughing and we do- we want you.

Commonality- If we say we like the same things you do- we may not- but we want to share common likes with you.

The arm punch- If we playfully catch you on the arm- we are feeling for muscles and finding an excuse to touch you, grrrrr.

What’s my name?- If we remember your name- you are more than just another guy in a bar.

Another question?- If we ask you a lot of questions we are trying to decide if we are compatible with you or not so keep answering- it saves us both a lot of time.

What time is it?- A legitimate opener- but if we ask you for the time- we don’t really want to know the time…..

The girlfriend truth bomb- If we ask if you are single or not or do the reverse psychology thing and talk about your gal pal without knowing if you actually have one- you don’t have to be a genius to work out why.

Compliments- If we compliment you on something- whatever it is- we have taken the time out to notice you- so we are on our way to lady wood.

Girlfriends- When we introduce you to our mates, we are getting them to vet you for possible faults.

Disappearing act- If they then decide that they all need to pee at once- then they approve and they are letting us to talk in peace.

Boyfriend- what boyfriend?- If we don’t volunteer information about another guy in our life- then we don’t want to talk about him tonight- get my drift?

The hair toss- If we play with our hair we really want a drink to turn into dinner and then coffee…comprende?

 

 

 


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