Listen to your date!
Cupid’s Plc. communications director, Sean Wood gives his last lot of dating advice! Use it wisely!
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Talking is really dependent on you and how you feel engaging with them. Try to get to know someone as much as you can before meeting. You could begin with chatting to them on the message boards, then on the phone or text. If you feel that meeting a person is not the right thing to do then don’t do it. Don’t be persuaded into anything that you are not ready for. If you both want to then that is fine!
Meeting up!
Meet somewhere public and where you can get absorbed in the atmosphere. This way you can talk all night long and get to know each other more. Try making your first encounter short, so that if it is not working there is no pressure to stay and feel awkward. If it is a success, extend the date further or arrange as second one.
What do we talk about?
Look like you are engaged by what they are saying! Ask questions and then depending on their answers try and follow on with some related questions, so it shows that you have processed what they have been telling you. Be honest in your responses, but don’t bombard them with too much information and things that are not related. Don’t be fake as most people can pick up when something is not genuine and you will repel your prospective date!
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