There are a number of ways to feel confident during sex, but most women are reserved about how their body looks in the eyes of their man.
Although you’ll be dying to whip your clothes off and jump under the sheets, don’t do this! Undressing slowly will have him hot in seconds and will have his mind racing as his eyes fall over you.
Once you’ve undressed, lie on the bed, hands over head, stretched out and with your back slightly arched. This will instantly make your tummy look slimmer and push your boobs up, making you look like a goddess.
Baring your neck, collar bone and boobs will also show him that you’re uninhibited as these areas are typically considered vulnerable so making them available to him will make you loom super confident.
If you’re not fully comfortable baring your body, try wearing a sexy slip to flatter your body without giving too much definition to areas that you don’t like. Wearing killer heels will also lengthen your legs and will also add to the fantasy.
Lighting is so important! Keep the lighting soft and no matter what your size it will flatter your body and instantly make you feel more sexy and confident.
Don’t be afraid to take control. Good sex means feeling great so when something feels good, tell him so he can focus on what you like.
It’s important to give him direction, if you don’t like something don’t just tell him that, tell him how he can improve on it or change it and then tell him how great it feels once he’s taken your direction. This will give both you and him a massive confidence boost.
Show your pleasure by making noises but also use facial expressions. Men often look to a woman’s face to see how they’re doing so tilt you head back a little, close your eyes and part your lips. Once he sees you’re having a good time his kisses and touch will become more passionate making sex better for both of you!
Be open to experiment, talk about what you’d like to do and then give it a go. The best way to introduce a fantasy is to test the waters by telling him of a ‘dream’ you had and see his reaction.
Sharing your fantasies with him will give him a confidence boost as it shows him you’ve chosen to be especially intimate with him. Remember to be firm if you’re not enjoying something; tell him to ‘stop’ rather than saying ‘no’ as no can sounds quite half-hearted.
When you’ve finished having sex, let him know that the romance isn’t over. Snuggle into him and press your bum into him. Feeling him behind you will remind you of the steamy session you just had and have him hot all over again.
To add to it, take his hand and cup your boob with it to let him know that just because the sex is over doesn’t mean you’re any less seductive.
Remember to carry condoms with you and be confident about making him wear one, even offer to put it on for him so that the moment isn’t ruined.
Always use condoms with new partners to stop the spread of STIs and unwanted pregnancy.
Cara Mason @FemaleFirst_UK
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