Relationship narratives take plenty of twists and turns, and, one in particular, is the decision about when a couple should move in together.
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With 25% of men admitting to cooking more and 28% cleaning more when they do move in with their girlfriend¹, there are plenty of perks to co-habiting with a loved one.
But, it’s a decision that shouldn’t be taken lightly. Online bed and sleep specialist Time 4 Sleep, has devised its top ten tell-tale signs, that prove you’re ready to complete the next milestone in your relationship.
Your stuff is ALWAYS at one another’s house
Do your toothbrushes permanently sit next to each other? Do you both contribute towards the weekly food shop? Do you have a drawer full of belongings at each other’s house? These are all definite signs that you’re already committed towards one another, and moving a few extra bits in wouldn’t cause too much disruption.
You’re on the same wavelength
If your tastes are similar, ambitions the same, food choices identical and career paths set, then it’s time to take the next step. Moving in together will only enhance your routines, relationship goals and make life a little easier.
‘That’ money talk…
The topic of money is always an awkward conversation, even with your partner. If you’ve had the chat, you understand each other’s financial situation, can afford to live together and know how you would split the household bills, then you’ve done the sensible thing and can now put your calculations into practice.
Are your routines compatible?
Do you both have hobbies that coincide with one another? Doing your own thing is important and means you respect each other’s interests. You can eat dinner and relax together on an evening, once you’re both home.
Best friends
It may sound cheesy, but if you’re already spending and investing a lot of time in each other, laughing, crying, having fun and just generally enjoying each other’s company, then perhaps the next step is inevitable.
You’re all friends
Social get-togethers are so much fun, because, as friends, you all get along together so well. It’s never awkward, the conversation flows, you laugh at any jokes, and there’s a great atmosphere when you all meet up.
It isn’t a chore
We all understand that household chores can be boring and repetitive, but, if you’re already splitting them and helping out when you stay over, or you don’t mind washing the dishes and putting the bins out, then you’ve got the jobs covered, and it will be easy when you live together.
Family ties
The important one. Do you have a good relationship with your partner’s family? This can often be difficult territory; if your parents speak highly of your partner, or they’ll text between themselves without you knowing, then the relationship will no doubt go from strength to strength.
First holiday
If you survived your first holiday together, and have been on many more since, then co-habiting shouldn’t be much different. You’ve already spent 24 hours a day together, for a week, or even two weeks.
You’re both talkers
Communication is key in every relationship. Be honest and open with one another; if your partner has the confidence to tell you they’re ready to move in, then they are. Likewise, if you want to live with and share a house with your other half, let them know.
Five Tips for Couples Who Are About To Move In Together- https://www.time4sleep.co.uk/blog/five-tips-for-couples-that-are-about-to-move-in-together/