Hello, I'm Munir Bello, author of, 5 star rated romantic comedy, The Break Up Recipe ( http://www.amazon.co.uk/The-Break-Recipe-Munir-Bello-ebook/dp/B00BFGMIXA/ref=cm_cr_pr_product_top ). I know a lot of women and I get asked a lot of questions about men, most recently, 'Why didn't I get a second date?' so I thought I would round up as many men as possible. I asked them and I present to you the top 10 reasons in no particular order.

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1. You Had Sex With Them

The guys thought that a woman was easy and likely to have had lots of sexual partners in the past and therefore wouldn't consider her relationship material.

2. You Didn't Have Sex With Them

Sods law eh? You're damned if you do and damned if you don't. Some of the other fellas said that they felt that a woman would be too much hard work and not worth the effort.

3. You Didn't Offer To Split The Bill

Some men didn't mind paying the bill on the first date but majority stated that they wanted a woman to at least offer to split it as it was good manners to.

4. You Talked Too Much

Some guys felt like they couldn't get a word in and thought that the talkative ladies they went on a date with were a bit self-obsessed

5. You Talked Too Little

Like the sex thing. Damned if you do, damned if you don't (I know, right?). A gentleman said he went on a date with a lady who was really quiet and he said the conversation felt like trying to get blood from a stone.

6. They Didn't Like Your Outfit

It sucks, you buy a special outfit on the day and pull off the label as a stranger on the tube tells you it's sticking out and your date doesn't like the outfit, worse he deems it such a crime that he won't see you again. The reason for this deal breaker was because the guys liked women that dressed in a similar manner to them so that they didn't look odd when out and about.

7. They Didn't Like Your Hair

I read an article that said hair was the second thing that a man noticed about a woman (not your bum or breasts), on the article face was number one in case you were wondering. Apparently for a lot of men if your hair doesn't quite cut it then a second date isn't on the cards.

8. You Were One Of Several Options

Thanks to Internet dating, dates are planned like work appointments. In some cases the guys have a date planned for every day of the week. You were Miss Wednesday but they either preferred Miss Monday or got on better with Miss Friday.

9. You Talked Too Much About Your Ex

Your ex might have been unreasonable, chewed with his mouth open, had halitosis, heck they might have even been bad in bed. The men thought it was a bit too much talking about the ex (apart from the bad in bed thing) and weren't likely to come back for seconds.

10. They Just Weren't Into You

Happens all the time, your hair could have been awesome, your outfit out of this world, you talked too little and too much at the same time, you were charming and funny but there was just no chemistry and you ended up in the friend zone.

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The Break Up Recipe by Munir Bello