Love- You should love your partner unconditionally and tell them as you leave on a morning and as you go to sleep at night. If you say nothing else to each other in a day- say 'I love you.'
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Respect- You should always give your partner the respect you expect in return. This can come in many forms- by not telling other people about your relationship, by noting the things they have achieved when they feel like a failure or by thanking them for the things they do for you.
Affection- Loving your partner is one thing- but you must also show them by your actions that you care and cherish them. You can give them a cuddle and a kiss when you see them after a day at work, snuggle up to them on the couch or hug and hold hands at bedtime. This is a constant reminder of how important the power of touch is in a relationship.
A listening ear- It's vital to absorb what your partner tells you to show them that you've heard what they've told you. They need to know that after a bad day they can come to you to vent and talk about solutions.
Every reason to trust you- Don't talk about your relationship issues behind their back- talk to them directly, don't succumb to temptation or talk about other options. If you break either of these rules the trust will be compromised and it's hard to recover from; if at all.
The truth- Sometimes a white lie can save your partner's feelings. Avoid lying about bigger issues in your relationship or they will never get solved, where you've been or who with. If you lie and your partner finds out it goes back to trust- which won't be there anymore.
Your time- It's all well and good being in a relationship but if you never spend any time with your partner- it's a waste. Make time for your SO and strike a balance between them and your friends and family. Yes, you need space to have some 'me time' but you should ensure that your partner comes first.
Your energy- Everyone is tired when they get home from work- but you have to muster up some energy for your loved one. If all you do is save your work angst and stresses for them- they will shy away from spending time with you anymore and feel more like an emotional punching bag than your partner.
The best of you- As much as you can. There will be times when the worst of you will show; when you're sad, confused or feeling helpless- that's a given. Try to be the best you can for your partner so they continue to enjoy your company and know every day why they picked you as their special someone.
A balance- When they feel sad- you need to be there to cheer them up, when they feel happy you need to keep up that momentum, when they feel unsure you have to offer words of encouragement. When they need your support emotionally and financially- offer it to them.