Kim Kardashian, Tulisa Contostavlos and Paris Hilton have all hit the headlines for the wrong reasons when there sex tapes were made public. We’ve put some tips together to keep your dignity intact, but keep you feeling sexy.
Trust
It sounds so painfully obvious, but before you make a sex tape with anyone, be sure that you can trust them fully. Don’t go making a sex tape with some guy you picked up from the bar that same night or you can guarantee by the same time the next day it will be all over the internet.
A long term, successful, healthy relationship is a good place to start when making a sex tape. This is more likely to ensure that your dignity will be protected from the worldwide web’s eyes.
The Device
Most sex tapes are taken on video phones, webcams and video cameras, but whatever medium you choose, always make sure that it is YOURS. By making the tape on your phone, camera or webcam, you can be in full control over who can see it and who can’t.
Don’t go sending it to your boyfriends device either, even if you trust them, it’s other people that you can’t trust. Just because your friends wouldn’t post your Sex Tape all over the internet if they found it, doesn’t mean his mates would do the same.
If you’re a fan of using your phone, then make sure you have a password on it so that no one can ‘accidently’ find them. The same goes for a webcam, have a password on your laptop/desktop.
Take Charge
The mistake the celebrities make is that they get their entire face in shot, and then try to deny that it was them.
In order to keep your face out of the shot, take charge and do the filming yourself. This is great because he will find it a massive turn on and you’ll be avoiding exposing yourself.
Lighting
As all women know, lighting can make a huge difference to how you look. Doing a Paris Hilton with the horrific night vision is a no-go, as are bright white lights.
Low, subtle lighting is the effect to go for as it will flatter your figure and will also add a bit of mystery which will turn the heat right up.
Have Fun
When you know you’re on film, it’s hard to relax and act natural as you’re suddenly very aware of every move you make and how you look.
Keep it fun and sexy by playing dress up. Pull out all the typical, cheesy characters, the French maid, the police woman and jail bird.
This will allow you to be in character which will loosen you up and allow you do reveal your wild side.
Nothing But Sure
Finally, be 100 per cent sure that this is something you want to do. It’s certainly weird watching yourself have sex and you have to prepare for the fact that it will be constant reminder of your partner should you ever break up.
If you’ve considered all the above and you’re ready to go, then grab the video recorder, dress up in your sexiest underwear and hit record.
Cara Mason @FemaleFirst_UK
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