With Valentine’s Day approaching, we’ve asked world-renowned energy healer, Jerry Sargeant, to share his top tips for ensuring the relationship with your significant other never needs repairing and will last for many years to come.
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Firstly, a pure relationship should never need repairing. Secondly, know you deserve to be happy and can co-create, with you partner, the relationship of your dreams. When in a relationship there are some crystal-clear tips to follow if you want the relationship to flourish in an enjoyable, healthy, happy, fun, vibrant and love filled way.
These 5 tips will ensure your relationship never needs repairing.
GIVE NOT GET
When you enter a relationship, you must be in it to give and not to see what you can get. You must open your heart and allow your compassionate nature to honour your partner and put your needs before your own. You must also do this in a healthy and balanced manner. It doesn’t mean you should sacrifice your dreams for your partner but more so meet half way and know that sometimes you must put your partner first.
ACCEPT
You must accept your partner fully. All the airs and graces. The deeper you go into relationship the more you will see the truth. We have all been through trauma and tough times in our lives and often these leave scars. You and your partner will constantly mirror back to each other what must be worked on within oneself. This must be honoured. Accept your partner and never try and change them. If there is something that annoys you about them or makes you feel uncomfortable, its perfect. Thank them and take a big long look in the mirror.
ENCOURAGE
This is simple. Encourage your partner to explore their dreams and follow their hearts. Never try and keep them small or control them in any way, shape or form. Love them unconditionally and allow them to be free to be the greatest version of them self. The more you do this the happier you both will be.
STOP AND LISTEN
Listen fully. Don’t text and listen or scroll through your e-mails and listen. Stop, honour the space and listen. Don’t think about how you can help or advise when your partner is sharing. Simply sit and listen with an open heart. Listening builds trust and trust is integral in a creating a healthy, long lasting and vibrant relationship.
HONESTY
Never lie. Always be truthful. Even if your partner may not like what you must share, you must speak your truth. If you bury your true feelings regarding any situation or event, you are asking for trouble. When your partner shares with you it’s important you accept what they say and allow them to be who they are. Speak your truth, allow and accept.
When you follow these 5 simple tips you will create the perfect foundation for the most enjoyable, healthy, happy, fun, vibrant and love filled relationship. It will thrive. I am not saying it will be easy as all relationships face challenges and its overcoming those challenges as a team that unifies and strengthens the bond of unconditional love.
With Love…
Jerry
You can find out more about Jerry Sargeant and his work at www.starmagichealing.com
Follow him on twitter @jerrysargeant
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