People say when you have been together for a while that you start to look and act like on another- while you might not see it- we have a few pointers to test if you have morphed into one person. You have a lot to thank your man for because the way they live their life can teach you some valuable lessons about what really matters.

You eat the same stuff

You eat the same stuff

Your dress like him- On a day when you are not doing anything special- you tend to wear the same hoodie-jean combo that he also wears when he has no plans. On these days you boast the 'hungover student look' which you got away with at university- but sadly now you are 30- it makes you look like members of a sporting team rather than a couple.

You eat the same stuff- Gone are the days when you eat salads, gym it every day and watch your figure with daily weighing in precision. You are in a relationship now- you are comfortable with each other's squidgy bits. If he eats pizza and chips for his tea- you do too. If he indulges in some cheesy Doritos for breakfast- you can't resist either.

You drink at the same pace- Once upon a time you opted for slim-line bottled drinks like WKD and Reef or a glass of wine because it looked feminine. Then he introduced you to a world of cider and now you can knock the large bottles back with the same gusto as him with one of his beers. And you don't care that it makes you look like one of the lads- it tastes good!

You burp and fart- When you first started dating- the sheer thought of passing any kind of wind in front of him would make you go running to your girlfriends and write in your diary for days. Now it's become a competition and you find it funny rather than regrettable or disgusting.

You don't wear make up- Again on days where you hunker down with the duvet, a boxset and lots of food that will make you feel like crap later- you go au natural. Even if your normal beauty regime is minimalist- you still don't put a thing on your face and your skin thanks you for it too. If he can get away with not covering himself up- so can you.

Your underwear is mostly the same- After the honeymoon period is over and you are out of your overdraft thanks to finally paying off those copious amounts of lingerie bills- you settle for something a little more comfortable. Goodbye lace- adios leather and silk- cotton is now your friend. It's easily washed, it's breathable and you no longer have to worry about coordination. Just like his drawer full of black boxers- you have a drawer full of black cotton panties and you are not ashamed of it because thrush and thong wedgies are a thing of the past.

You can get ready in no time at all- He no longer has to wait hours for you to emerge from the bathroom or bedroom. If you need to be out in half and hour you can wash, dry, brush, dress and moisturize in that time. It's a fine art- you shower- wake him up- and while he showers you get dressed and dry your hair. By the time he has pulled on his jeans you are stood by the door ready to make some memories.

Your attitude to life mellows- Before him you would worry about what people thought of you and what people really meant by what they said- as your paranoid girly mind took over. His relaxed attitude to life has rubbed off on you and if people don't like you- you think 'I don't have time for this s**t' and move on. Analyzing what people think of you is a waste of your life and you no longer consider spending precious time with unworthy people.

You just want a good time- Sod the drama, forget who is wearing what- you just want to go out and have a blast. Clothes, gossip and relationship woes can get tedious and all you want is to have some laughs and forget about the serious or trivial stuff.

You no longer care about foreplay- Your attitude towards sex becomes very masculine. All you want is him inside you and foreplay just delays the inevitable. Lube can get you as wet as foreplay can- so you save the ass grabbing and neck kissing for during because you just want to get on with it.


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