natalie johnston asks :
hi ive been seeing a guy on off for 7 months casually although he says he doesnt want arelationship at the mo i had beebn doing all the contact so now decided to back off he contacted me few days ago and seemed more keen his birthday tmrw i want to leave it and see if he really intersted in me when i last spoke to him he said if i was out sat to txt to meet him as hed be out for his birthday i said if i dont txt i wont be out and to have a nice birthday i wont be out due to other stuff but should i send a bday card or txt to acknowledge the b/day or leave it to him to contact me i also said to him last time that if i didnt go out for his bday to contact me to meet another time what should i do?please help please email me back as soon as u can as would need to send card tmrw hes 32.
Sorry that I didn't reply in time to help you with your initial problem.
I hope everything turned out OK for you and if there is anything else that I can do to help then just post another problem in and I'll answer you as soon as possible.
In the future however, do not let this lad rule your life. If you want to settle down and have a relationship, then tell him and don't let him walk all over you, and want to spend time with you only when it suits him. You have a right to decide what kind of relationship it is as well.
Ahh .. looks like I didn't answer you in time. I would have advised you not to make any further contact with him anyway no matter how hard it is.
He's walking all over you and knows that if you call, he will come running.
Don't let him do it to you anymore.
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