Bullying Boyfriend
Linda asks:
Dear Yin & Yang, I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. He has never worked and is quite lazy.
He is always on the computer watching porn & never gives me attention sexual or otherwise. He says sex is silly but says he's past was very active.
He expects me to keep him and when I try to tell him my worries he says everything that is wrong is my fault. He can be physically abusive and I'm starting to feel very used.
He constsntly tells me he is more intelligent than me and makes fun of my weight. I'm only a few pounds over. I am depressed and its getting in the way of my studies as I'm a student. Please help.
You should never stay with someone who is abusive to you.
Get a family member or friend to come round and ask him to leave, or if it is his house pack up your stuff and leave while he is out. he will beg for you to stay, tell you he will change or even insist you need him but you don't. Get out now while you have a chance to makesomething of you're life.
You are not over weight, you are not thick. He is the waste of space and you need him out of you life so you can get on with it.
Why are you with this man?
If anyone is physically abusive to you you should leave straight away, he will only continue.
As well as the violence he sounds like a controlling bully putting you down when in fact he is a layabout with nothing going for him.
You're making something of yourself with your studies, get rid of this loser and prepare for a happier, more fulfilled life.
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