Can I Trust Him?
L asks:
Can i trust this guy? I been with someone for 4 years now he was all over me for along time. Last year i discovered his was going out with my own daughter. shock and went ape shit and exploded, as he was supposed to be my best mate...I forgave him as he promise not to do it again. But this last few weeks my daughter been messing with him in front of me. i dont know if it a game. but he not the same with me anymore.I had really hard words with her, as he old enough to be her father!!. I feel i lost my friend to something younger and beautiful, am i jealous or not, should i forget him totally and move on with my life. Be grateful for your answer. thanks.
You need to sit down with your daughter and give her a proper rollicking! How dare she, you need to tell her that is unacceptable behaviour and set some serious boundaries. In terms of the guy, don’t feel you have a lost friend in him a friend should never treat you like that.
Get shot of the guy and ban him from your home and within a mile radius of your daughter – banish him for good. Stand up for yourself and don’t be a door matt, let hiom go and find someone else to wipe his feet on.
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