Dropped By Text
beth.r.l asks:
i was recently dumped by the one guy i have ever felt safe with. Once he dumped me I was really upset and he'd done it by text. he had complained that I had hurt him, and i know that I did and I really didn't mean to. after a week we made up and agreed that we loved each other too much to throw it all away, but he told me not to tell any of my friends. .
I tried to tell him the next day that I had to but he never replied. then after a few days he dumped me again this time by facebook. he said that I hurt him and that he didnt have any feelings for me anymore. but after going from upset to happy I went all the way down to extremely depressed. every day at school I wouldnt laugh and be my crazy self all my friends were worried about me, but he wouldnt talk to me no matter what my friends said.
I have kind of got over him after almost a month of being depressed. but I still sometimes find myself missing him. we went out for just over a year. what should i do he doesnt want to date me again, he only wants to be my friend (though he never talks to me) and ive started getting jealous of claire my ex best friend who in science laughs at his jokes, should I try talking to him or should I leave behind the guy I truly love and miss maybe my only chance at true happiness?
Beth Hi
I am sorry to hear about your breakup. Without knowing all the facts it appears you have been totally in love with someone who unfortunately does not share your feelings.
I would suspect that he had decided to break up with you anyway, but I do feel he has been very cowardly in the manner he used to do so, by text or by facebook. This just goes to further confirm his disregard for your feelings and emotions.
In all honesty he is not the one for you something that in time you will realise when your emotions settle down.
In my opinion leave him to his life and get on with your own life there will be the ideal man out there for you go and find him or at least one who values and cares for you and one who will talk to you if he feels something is not right instead of just dumping you by text.
One day he will realise just what he missed when he let you go.
Beth Hi
You are better off without this guy. Any man who no matter what you have done to hurt him that cannot deal with it face to face is a worthless loser.
He was either trying to hurt you with a complete disregard for your feelings or just a plain spineless coward, you deserved an explaination. But then to return to you and put you through it all again! He is not worth spilling a tear for got riddance.
Get yourself a guy that will love you and make you happy learn from your mistakes though
Sorry for sounding harsh but cowards like him rile me
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