Forgive and Forget?
Joe asks:
Early this year i found that my husband cheats on me. He started texting other women. I confronted him and after that he apologise to me and promised not to do it anymore. We're still staying together but until now i still cant trust him. Should i leave him or try my best to forget the past and start all over again?
Try and find out why he cheated, and see if you can find a solution to your problem as a couple.
You're husband was in the wrong but the problem may have stemmed from your behaviour as a couple.
Talk things through and if you think you can find a way to make things work and trust him, make a clean start. If not walk away and find a man who deserves you.
If you have said you will forgive him you have to do that. You can't keep bringing up the past otherwise it will make it hard for you both to move on.
Think long and hard, if you want to try again accept his apology and then do not mention it again.
If you can't forgive and forget then move on and find a man you can trust.
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