Gaydar?
supersteve asks:
I have been dressing up in womens clothes for 40 years I am married to a wonderfull women we do not have sex but I have been thinking about sex with men for years. I have met a man who is gay and wants sex he said that gays can tell if another man is gay he said I am 100 percent gay he could tell right away what shall I do.
If this man has made it clear he want sex the chances are he will say whatever it takes to get you into bed.
Stay well clear of him.
If you are thinking about having sex with men you may be gay but that is not a problem, what is a problem is that you are considering doing this behind your wife's back.
Does she know about the cross dressing? She may have some idea, you need to tell her that you are feeling confused and need some spaceto get your head together.
Spend some time alone and decide if you would rather stick with your marriage or have the single life. Make your decision for you though, not this other man. I have a feeling he won't be around for long.
This is ridiculous, nobody can tell if you are gay except for you.
It sounds like this man is trying to take advantage of your confused state of mind. You need to get him out of your life now.
If you are thinking of having sex with other people, male or female, it seems that unfortunately your marriage has broken down.
You need to decide if you want to walk away from your wife for a single life, be that as a gay or straight man, or if you would rather stay with your wife.
Once you have decided then you have your answer.
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