As I say to a lot of my readers don’t get involved, why ruin your relationship with your fiancé, and who’s to say his brother has any feeling for you. You might just make a complete idiot of yourself, if you truly love your fiancé why don’t you suggest a date to get married or better still tell him your booking a family holiday that caters for weddings and get married abroad maybe you both need a helping hand to get you along. Keep you feeling to yourself about your fiancé s brother, I think he’s got enough problems of his own without you adding to them? Also if he doesn’t fancy a night out why not ask him to baby-sit and get you man to take you out on an occasional Friday night.