'I felt like a teenage in love...' - Heather
Heather asks:
I am married with one child and have been happy with my life until on a girl’s night out I met a man I used to go out with when I was in my late teens. We swoped phone number’s to catch up on all the gossip, he is divorced. After a few phone calls and a secret meeting one afternoon, I felt like a teenage in love all over again, butterflies and giggles every time I thought of him. We started having afternoon liaisons which lead us to having the most incredible sex it lasts all afternoon. I still have been making love with my husband trying to keep things as they were, but after my lover and I last slept with each other I began to itch. I think I have got lice but I don’t know who I have got them off my lover or my husband what shall I do, because if I’ve got them off my lover he will have them and so will my husband help me please and quickly. You fool if you were happy with your life why do the worst thing to your relationship that you possible could. You can get something from the chemist for the lice but how are you going to get your husband or your lover to use it without letting them now why. I’m speechless, anyway are your sure you have lice and not an allergy that making you itch I find out for sure first. You need a kick up the but for what you’ve done, If your happy with your husband ditch your lover otherwise its your decision but you have to live with it, they always say the grass isn’t greener on the other side, and you never know anyone properly until you have lived with them. I hope you make the right decision, you never now the decision may be made for you if you husband has got lice he’s going to want to know how he got them.
That’s what happens when you lead a double life, it comes back to bite you! Quite literally in your case, but either way you need to seek treatment. Luckily if you have them, both your partners will probably have them too, so if it was me I would accuse my lover and use that as an excuse to end the affair, who wants to sleep with a guy that obviously puts it about and what else might you catch. Then I would have a go at my husband, if he is the source, you never know he may have picked them up from a toilet seat! If he ends up not having them then it will prove your ex gave them to you, and in that case as far as hubby is concerned then you picked them up from a toilet seat. Question for you, while you have been sleeping elsewhere could your fella have got fed up and cheated on you and again quite literally given you a dose of your own medicine?
