Immature Ex
Suicidal asks:
I went out with this boy. We're both in year 8. But after a day, he broke up with me because of his friends. I was cool with that. But it was obvious he still wanted me. And I still wanted him.
About 6 weeks later, he asks me out again. it was just before the week break, and I said yes but I wasn't feelin' it so, at the end of the week, I broke up with him. He's being really immature over it.
We sit together in Art, and he goes round the room and asks everyone else for a pencil except me, when I'm right next to him. I was hoping we could be friends. And all my friends agree that I did the right thing in dumping him. But all his friends are giving me a real hard time over it. What do I do?
You're right your ex is acting immature and proving you made the right decision by breaking up with him.
I know it will be difficult but just ignore him and that will show him up for the childish person he is, don't be drawn into any arguments just rise above him.
If you can swap seats so you don't have to work with him anymore, if not talk to the other people around you.
Some people just aren't mature enough to be in a relationship and it looks like your ex is one of them.
You know you did the right thing breaking up with this guy, your friends know it and he probably does too.
Ignore his childishness and tell his friends to mind their own business, have they no lifes of their own that they are so interested in yours.
Girlsd mature more quickly than boys at your age and your ex is a prime example of this.
Let him carry on been childish and playing with pencils while you ahve fun with your friends and get over the relationship.
Don't get back with him again eithwer, he's proved he doesn't deserve you when he is still acting like a child.
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