Sari asks:

So I met this guy at a rave between my sorority and his frat. I wasn't looking for anything going in to the party. Anyways... at the party we started talking, dancing, and he bought me drinks.

When we were leaving the party, it was cold, he saw me shiver and put

his arm around me to keep me warm.

On the ride back to campus, we talked and made out. At then end of the ride we decided we would get together after I changed. He asked me for my number, which i gave him.

About 10 min later, he txt me saying he was just saying bye to the bros and was coming to meet me. I waited about 10min for his call and then i decided that I was just going to head to bed for the night. So I text him goodnight and he says that sounds like a good idea and that if I was cold he would join me. But both my roommates were asleep so I told him not that night.

The following night, we start txting again and he asks me about plans for the weekend (valentine's day weekend). I told him I had plans valentine's day (b/c i thought it was too soon to celebrate valentine's day w/ him) but I was free the rest of the weekend. He said he was going snowboarding and would be back sunday.

So i didn't call him or txt him at all until sunday night asking if he wanted to go for coffee when he got back. He said he was really tired and didn't know but he would call me when he got back on campus.

I waited for him to call, by 11 he hadn't called so I was like forget that and got changed into pjs, got into bed, and started reading a book. About 2am he txts me saying he was sorry he fell asleep as soon as he got to his room. He asked if I was still awake and if I wanted to come over. I told him I didn't want to walk across campus by myself that late, but he was welcome to come over to my room.

About 15 min later he came over. We watched the end of an action movie i was watching earlier, and then made out in my bed. Around 3:15am, my roommate comes in and we got really quiet and thought we were going to be busted. She left right away, not even realizing we were there. But he decided he didn't want to stay the night, in case she came back. Around 4am he left.

I txted him the next day asking if he had class on tues b/c i have the day off, but he said he had class.

We haven't really talked since. I don't know if he thought i was a booty call and was going to have sex with him (which i never planned to since I am still a virgin and waiting).

I am just confused on if he likes me or am i just a booty call to him?

I have a formal in about 10 days that i was going to invite him to, but I don't know if I should?