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Lack Of Action
wondering asks:
I met a man through friends. From the first moment we have had great conversations and laugh together about all kinds of things. The problem is that he lives several states away.
Over the past year we have managed to meet in person 5 times. After we met the 2nd time he began texting me everyday. Each time we meet in person I have hopes of taking the relationship further - but it never happens, just the occational touch or closed mouth kiss.
I am seperated from my husband and have seen other men since seperating. Do you think a long distance relationship could work? Or could it be that because we live so far away that it makes the relationship more tempting?
Should I press for more physical interaction on our next meeting...or just enjoy what we have? We will be meeting again in a few weeks.
This man obviously likes you as he is taking the time to meet you but are you sure he doesn't just think of you as a friend? It's unusual for a man not to try it on!
You need to make the first move and gage his reaction, this should tell you if he wants to take the relationship further.
Perhaps next time you meet up book a hotel room and suggest he joins you. You'll soon know how he feels about you!
You like this man and if he is making the effort to meet up with you it would seem he likes you too, perhaps you are both just shy.
If that is the case I'm afraid you are going to have to bite the bullet and talk to him about the lack of physical relationship. This man could just be scared of pushing you too far so you need to tell him how far you want to go.
If you both like each other I don't see any point in finishing things and as they say, if you don't ask you don't get!
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