Lois asks :
When my boyfriend even touches me, I experience like little electric shock throughout my brain and body; the problem is when we have intercourse, I can’t climax as sometimes it’s over too quickly.
So are you saying that you fancy your boyfriend and feel a real spark when you’re together - or do you really experience a physical electric shock? When it comes to intercourse, it’s not uncommon to find that the intimacy doesn’t live up to the chemistry you feel you have out of the bedroom.
What you really need to do is address why it’s over so quickly and whether he’s spending enough time on foreplay with you, building you up to the main climax? If he can’t go on for very long, you need to entice him to be a bit more forthcoming on the foreplay.
Basically, you’re saying the sex is not satisfying you. You need to address this if you want the relationship to continue - and it sounds as though you have a selfish lover who is relying on the fact that you have great chemistry and that it’ll see you through.
You would not be the first woman to need more than the initial flame of interest. Good sex sometimes needs to be worked at and if one of you isn’t happy, it’ll either fizzle out or be fake.
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