Never Been Kissed
lieghah asks:
i'm a 19 yr old girl soon to be 20 and i've never had a bf and it really hurts me cos all the guys that like me are not my type at all! and all the guys i really like that are sweet and lovely tend to see me only as a friend :( i honestly don't know what to do and i'm so ashamed that i lie and say i've had 2 bfs cos i'm just so ashamed cos erm well i've never even been kissed :'( arghhhh i just want a lovely guy it's just not fair!
Dont worry youve not had a boyfriend yet, your only 19 and its nothing to be ashamed of. Keep lying! Infact when you next meet a guy you like...tell him youve got a boyfriend. men always want what they cant have, and like a challenge so thats certain to spark his interest! Dont give yourself a hard time, theres nothing wrong with being fussy and waiting for the right guy to come along, it will be even more special if you wait for the right guy who will be lucky to have you!
Oh dear, I hate to ruin this even more for you but your situation WONT change. Ive got a few years on you now, and have notched up my fair amount of boyfriends and what ive learnt is the ones who are keen get overlooked, and the ones we like...dont like us enough back. get used to it, it wont change, eventually you will be even more ashamed and desperate and realise the only option is to lower your standards, and meet a great guy who treats you right, whos likely to be an 8 pinter. Enjoy, youve got some great years ahead.
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