Stalker
C asks:
I'm convinced that people are trying to ruin my life.
I have a perfect relationship but someone is trying to ruin it. They text me off a number I dont know which I cant call back because its not available all the time. They are constantly saying my boyfriend is cheating on me which i can't see how because he is always with me when he is not at work.
I have a suspicion it is my ex-boyfriend of two years which i cant prove.
I dont know what to do, this is making me feel really low and im constantly paranoid and cant trust anybody, not even my boyfriend.
It sounds like someone is jealous of you and your relationship.
Ignore the messages and change your number, don't let the person see that it is getting to you and they will get bored.
Make sure your boyfriend knows about the situation and he will understand why you are feeling upset, but the important thing is not to react and let the person doing these things know that they are getting to you.
Once your number is changed give it only to people you trust and then if it does happen again it will be easier to track the person down.
First off be thankful that you have a life and that you are not sad enough to want to get so involved with someone else like this person.
Now tell the police about these messages so they can trace the culprit, then contact your phone operator to change your number, explain the situation and they will be able to sort things out easily for you.
Don't accuse anyone as you can't be sure who it is but don't let it affect your life. Once you ahve changed your number all this will be behind you and you can laugh at the sad person so desperate for attention that they have to text you.
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