Text Session With Married Woman

James writes:

I met this lady at work she was only temping there I started flirting with her for fun, she said she is married but having problems in it. Before she left she gave me her mobile number and we have been texing each other since, but then she rang my work place for my number saying her husband went down her phone & deleted my number. She's nice but what should I do.

Yin's Answer

You haven't said that you want a relationship with this woman so I'm guessing you don't and we're just in it for a bit of fun. Even if you did want more she is married, wether she says she is having problems or not and you should respect that.

Next time she get's in touch tell her you are sorry for any problems but it would be best if you stop texting each other.

If you both want more and she leaves her husband that is a different story but you should step back and let her deal with her marriage problem's without distrction.

After all you don't want an angry husband on your case do you.

Yang's Answer

Cut all contact with this woman, delete her number, don't answer her calls and if she texts you don't respond.

If she is having marriage problems, that is between her and her husband and you should stay out of it you don't want to get involved with this, it is nothing to do with you.

Even if you would like to have a relationship with this woman if she is prepared to cheat WITH you what's to say she won't cheat ON you in the future?

Married people rarely live their spouses and getting involved can only cause trouble so stay away.