Trust

liza writes:

How can i trust me husband? We want to start swinging with other couples? What must i do to trust him?

Yin's Answer

There is nothing that you should consciouslly have to do to trust your husband. A relationship should be based on trust.

Love alone is not going to be enough for your relationship to last. You need to trust each other, especially before you move on to involve in activities such as swinging!

There is not a chance that your relationship is going to survive if you are to become sexually involved with other couples, and you don't trust him.

Yang's Answer

Before you start swinging with other couples, you need to develop your own relationship and the trust that you have for each other.

Whose suggestion was it to start swinging? Because it doesn't sound to me as though you are overly keen on doing it, so I would suggest that you sort yourselves out first.

Otherwise this is a recipe for disaster.