Ariel asks :
This is gonna be a really long one.. So me and this guy let's call him ken(his name is not ken haha). Ok so we started talking in July and we went out a couple times and we really like each other.. He even came to my family gathering and stuff(thought I might add this in to let u know how serious he might be about this relationship).. It was all going good until he had to really study study study!! It's not a bad thing but it's because he neglected me.. I don't blame him because he's having his major exams.. Ok so idk what the hell happened but we stopped talking and it's been 2 months alr.. I'm just currently waiting for his exams to finish to talk to him or waiting for him to talk to me first.. Is there anything I can possibly do? Or like what if after I've waited for so long and it's in vain? I have to out it out there that I have really deep feelings for ken and he has for me too(before all this happened,at least) .. I really dw this relationship to end.. Help...?
Yin replies
If he is passionate about passing his exams and getting good grades then I would leave him to approach you. If you interrupt him while he is focused then he will not thank you for it. If you like him as much as your say you do then perhaps you will need to wait for him.
Yang replies
There is nothing to say that things won’t get better once the exams are over, but don’t hold all your hopes on it. Try distracting yourself as much as possible by going out with friends and family so you are not focusing on this and over thinking things. If you build things up so much when you do eventually see him again you might bombard him with pent up emotions from the last two months, which could scare him away. Two months is not that long in the scheme of things if you do last and will show that you understand how important his future is to him.
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