Maisie asks :

Hi Lucy,

 

I’ve been texting a guy for 3 months we finally met up and a got drunk and I told him a few home truths. I said sorry but now he won't talk to me.

Hi Maisie,

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The problem with alcohol is that it makes us slack tongued so things that we would normally keep to ourselves are put out there regardless of the consequences.

The most you can probably do is apologise- if you have done this, then it may be wise to wait for him to come around. Things are usually not as bad in the cold light of day and he might find it in himself to forgive you.

If you keep apologising and trying to make contact then you might get in the way of his thinking time, so perhaps give him some space to mull over what happened and what was said.

Given that you have not been in in touch for all that long, he might choose not to see you again so be prepared for this. If he does then I would suggest not drinking as much next time so you don’t fall into the same trap.


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